So, as the year draws to a close, what’s everyone’s top 3 personal sexual highlights of the year?
My first one is pretty tame but v pleasant nevertheless. During early part of 1st lockdown I had to go into self isolation for 7 days due to Covid symptoms, which unfortunately entailed separate bed and no physical contact with my wife during this time. We were both on edge with a lot of sexual tension, so when the self isolation was over it was pretty passionate and intense when we got it on after.
Second one is discovering how to get her to have intense powerful blended orgasms - doesn’t happen every time but when it does it’s a full on experience.
Third one is managing during solo play with prostate stimulation, to achieve hands free orgasm couple of times. Next step is to achieve this with her - she’s keen on trying prostate massage on me so fingers crossed.
I got properly into sex toys. At the start of the year all I owned was my Magic Wand Rechargeable, nowadays I’m having better orgasms than ever before and I’ve learnt to love penetration!
I’ve finally accepted my autism and have been learning coping strategies that work for me. I was diagnosed years ago, but never really accepted it. This year I’ve really come to understand myself, talking with other autistic people has really helped me and I’m now proud to be neurodivergent!
I’ve been more myself! This year I’ve dyed and cut my hair, worn more flamboyant clothes, said what’s on my mind, started loving the way I look and the way I behave. I’m no longer afraid to ask girls out or order for myself at a restaurant. I’ve been kinder and more open-minded and more friendly, I’m just unapologetically myself.
My first highlight was buying my stainless steel ribbed sounder . Once I got over being scared it was quite exciting and a totally new feeling .
The second was the first time I climaxed using my remote prostrate massager at the same time as sounding . The deepest ejaculation with the largest volume of cum in some time .
Third is how excited I can get wearing women’s Lacey lovelies .
I know , rather boring , but when you are a solo act you need to find new ways to stay active .
No sexual highlights really this year! But personal ones were being lucky enough to actually go on our 3 booked holidays, in between lockdowns, getting through the initial panic/chaos of lockdown, maintaining my sanity whilst working through it all, and getting our bathroom completely revamped.
It’s been a weird old year! However definitely one with some highlights…
As a sexual highlight, we, as a couple, tired, with two young children have managed to work harder on improving our sexual happiness. Our Mojo started to return this year, and I’ve had a few firsts I never thought would happen. My lovely wife has really relaxed into it and has decided that trying anything once is a good idea. She had flat refused anything anus oriented, and flat refused to perform oral until this year…but now a butt plug is a fairly regular part of our play - and she even performed some oral! We’re continuing to try and keep our levels of intimacy high, even while juggling bringing up our kids, work etc.
My 2-Year old decided by herself she wanted to potty train - and has smashed it inside 2 weeks - no more nappies for us. So happy to have massively reduced both our electricity and water usage (due to the huge reduction in washing (we used reusable nappies)
We kept sane throughout the shitstorm of covid - it’s been tough with my wife working away for a week at a time leaving me to try and juggle looking after the kids, dogs, cats and still do my job! Kids and animals are fit and healthy, and haven’t really been effected by the pandemic (other than missing the grandparents) - I’m proud of all of us! Especially the kids who’ve smashed it throughout the whole pandemic…
Started watching porn. Usually I just rely on my imagination, but I got curious to see what was out there.
Started taking lingerie photos. I’m really camera shy, so it was nice to get a bit of a confidence boost from that instead of feeling like I have to hide away all the time.
