Preamble:
- Sexual encounters defined for 2023 as shared sexual experience between myself and wifey, including virtual/phone sex and any oral or genital penetration whether or not it resulted in orgasm. NOT included is solo masturbation or casual groping/fondling.
- This year I moved to a spreadsheet entered by date, so the total encounter number is based on entries.
- “Specials” are specific “enhancements” tracked as anything above and beyond our routine (bedtime sex with wifey manually stimulating to orgasm). I specifically tracked the presence/utilization of anal, bondage, cunnilingus, felatio, massage, roleplay, toys for her, and toys for him. I did also track her manual stimulation which screws up the numbers in the chart. This is a change from last year’s method, so that’s going to be the most dramatic change. Also more granular data there.
- Positions - I tracked “primary positions” and “secondary positions” used for each encounter. My preference would be to be able to do a multi-pick for every time we have sex, rather than trying to figure out a primary/secondary or just pick one. So anyway - my top positions includes them being clocked as either primary or secondary, but the percentage listing is a bit wonky as it relates to accurate representation.
Total sexual encounters: 339 (+3, 0.8% from 2022)
His (my) orgasms: 327 (+5, 1.6%)
Her (wifey) orgasms: 314 (+8, 2.6%)
(Relevant Graph)
Monthly Average Encounters: 28.25 (+0.25)
Monthly Average His Orgasms: 27.25 (+0.42)
Monthly Average Her Orgasms: 26.17 (+0.67)
Weekly Average Encounters: 6.52 (+0.06)
Weekly Average His Orgasms: 6.29 (+0.10)
Weekly Average Her Orgasms: 6.03 (+0.15)
Peak Month: May (35 encounters, 33 His, 31 Her)
Low Month: June or July (25 encounters each, 24/24 His, 24/21 Hers
Peak Specials: December (27)
Top Specials: Toys for Her (74), Cunnilingus (47), Felatio (44), Massage (35), Anal (15)
Top Positions: Missionary (59.8%). Prone (18.7%), Cowgirl (5.8%)
Top Types of Encounter: Bedtime (82%), Sexcapade (7.4%), Quickie (5.9%)
And some postamble…
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Peak month: May came in again as our lustiest month with 35 encounters. We got away for my birthday weekend and made use of the 48 hours away, capped off when we got home Sunday night - wifey was still riled up enough that we had the unexpected (for us) trifecta of romantic bedtime anal sex. Probably not the last time it’ll happen, but was fun and surprising.
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Low Month: Nothing dramatically below par for us this year, but June and July were both at 25 times together. Wife had some travel both months, I went away for a couple days in July, and we were on family vacation for a week that slowed us down just a hair as we were more exhausted then normal. But really not that below average.
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Least Routine Month: January (only 71% bedtime sex - although did include 2 virtual/video sex calls while was was calling - and they were at bedtime. With that factored in, December is the most “adventurous” with only 73% bedtime sex).
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MOST Routine Month: April comes in at 93% Bedtime Sex, 76% Missionary, and only 14 “specials” noted. Looking back, it was a busy month with many weekend activities stealing our alone time.
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The orgasm gap: Wifey remains a one-and-done gal most of the time. Even on days that we have time for extended play she would prefer to build and build and build and then let it go and call it good. That said, there were 7 occasions where she did go for multiples (6 sexcapades and one bedtime time involved me going down on her with the Womanizer OG and some face-f*cking), and two months (February and March) that she surpassed my orgasm count during time together.
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Wordcloud: I left an open column for notes to add any toys used (would be another thing that would be nice to select from a multipick dropdown) as well as positions more than 2 or any other kind of notes on the style of play we had. Top words for 2023 included: MELT (59x, as in We-Vibe Melt), PERIOD (55x, as in period sex), DILDO (28), WOMANIZER (16), FACE-FCKING (13), and MIDNIGHT and ORAL (8x each).
How’d I do? What more information would you try to track over a year? Anyone a wizard with Google Spreadsheets and have a solution for my trouble with tracking deets that could be multi-pick per session? Am I just a weirdo for thinking so hard about how to track such a thing? But I’m the right kind of weirdo to hang out here, right?
Right?