I’m not a newbie at getting pegged in fact I wanna go bigger and have my partner fist me, but I’m having a problem with getting there. Is it just a stage where I need to practice getting to a bigger girth or are we doing something wrong?
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If you’re looking for a good toy to size up, the TitanMen Intimidator gets a lot of kudos on here. Apparently it saves a bit of cash versus buying separate toys. It is quite large though. 
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Wow looks massive and colour me intrigued, we have just ordered the 18 inch double ended dildo for us to use but I think that might be on the wish list next 
Quite large! that’s a f@cking understatement!
Takes me ages to get the head in but then its all good 
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Of course you don’t HAVE to take it all 
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Thats the problem for me(male), there only so far I can get our current toys but I really want them to go further but i just physically can’t get it in further why do you think that is?
You need to stretch your self gently. Use lots of lube and let gravity help you. That cone looks I deal.
I’d say start with a small butt plug/dildo and when it becomes easy, go a size up and eventually you’ll get there. Also use lots of lube. I can now do anal fisting on myself and now I’m working on vagina fisting. For some reason, anal fisting was much easier for me, I thought it would of been the other way around.
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Usually it’s down to warming up and practice with toys aimed to stretch yourself at a slow and comfy pace as well as using the right anal lubes specialised for fisting.
Many who do fisting are quite committed in their daily regime
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Thanks for all the advice, might start a training programme 
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what helps me most, with the greatest results, is to gradually increase in size whilst in mid orgasm. i have the intimidator, and everytime i orgasm i find it more comfortable and easier to increase upto 3 stages at a single time.
Go slow, don’t force anything and use loads of lube. Tried to get a little further each time until you feel stretch which can be a little uncomfortable but it should never be painfull, never force anything you will only hurt yourself. When you feel pain it means your going to fast.
A great way to stretch with using tapered buttplugs or dildos. With a few different sized plugs you can slowly increase the size, when you can insert the smaller one easily you can go to the get the next size, until the plug is about the same size as your fist.
Use loads of a nice thick anal or fisting lube, wouldn’t recommend using anything that is numbing.
Just slowly work your way up in size and try to practice twice a week or something. Give youself a few days to recover in between.