I send unsolicited duck and Dec pics! 
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Well thatās preferable to Ant and Dec picsā¦
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Iād just hate to see someone who is looking for a partner ( sexual or otherwise) to get hurt in anyway in a site that may be unsecured.
Seem to be nice people on this forum, not necessary the same else where. Take people here at face value.
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Iām not quite sure I understand your point @Iwill? Surely itās the same meeting people in real life? You still donāt know who someone really is until you get to know them properlyā¦ (and even then Iād argue you may never get to know the ārealā version of somebody). I said above in this thread to obviously do checks etc with phone and video calls to make sure people are who they say they are, but it feels a bit contradictory to say you take people on an anonymous forum at face value but donāt use apps in a safe way? Iām also not sure I agree with your term ānormalā dating app - what is normal?
Iāve met some wonderful people through dating apps (of all kinds) and have friends and colleagues who have met one night stands/friends with benefits/are in brilliant long term relationships through apps. Absolutely advocate for safe use of apps, but Iād expect that for people you meet in person too. Just because they donāt appeal to you (although I note you said youāve never used them) doesnāt mean they arenāt for everyone.
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Iām finding the toys fantastic for being able to take as much time as I like to relax and fully enjoy the sensations without any pressure. Iām still thinking about the best use of imagination, donāt want to fall into any unhappy obsessions with someone or some activity that isnāt available.
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What I meant was, sites that are specifically for sexual connotations may require extra care, purely because of the nature of the site.
Of course you can get dubious people on any app and caution is required wherever.
The Lovehoney forum is not a site to meet sexual partners, so I take peopleās opinions and advice shared at face value, but people will obviously take out of it what they want to.
Iām just concerned about single women in particular and in this part of the thread @Littleblondechick , potentially having a bad experience.
Iām not suggesting everyone ( males)who uses sexual connection apps have bad intentions, Iām purely emphasising how careful women should be , no more than that. Call me old fashioned if you like.
Iām sorry if I sounded unjustifiably critical of all sexual connection sites, that wasnāt my intention.
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I prefer to think of it in terms of āgenuineā people and ānot genuineā. All people who are using a site for genuine reasons should be wary of the possibility of being exploited by the people on the site who are not genuine. Iām not sure gender is important.
And this isnāt solely an internet thing, I think itās applicable to real life too.
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Yeah, I have several friends with benefits and met some really nice people. Obviously, not every hook up is amazing but then neither is regular dating.
As for the revealing pictures. Once youāve seen oneā¦, then another and another, you realise just what a variety there is: guys and girls. There are some real pretty d*cks around, just as there are beautiful boobs and bums.
ā¦ and some of the comments posted on our own āLingerieā appreciation have little to do with the lingerie
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