Hi all. My wife and I have a shared laptop and when I logged on earlier on I could see that she had been watching some porn while having some fun alone time. I have absolutely no problem with this whatsoever and I actually find it quite a turn on. However this is slightly different. We are open with each other, however she had searched spitroasts on her website of choice. Neither of us want to introduce a third party to our sex life and when we have discussed DP with myself and a toy she isn’t that fond of the idea, so I don’t push it. I still found it a turn on that she was watching videos and enjoying herself, however I’m not sure how to feel about the specific search of spitroasts. Am I reading to much into this? Can I have some thoughts?
I also want to say that this wasn’t an invasion of her privacy, we have a shared laptop that we both use for watching adult content so know what we each watch, and I wasn’t looking through the history on the computer, the tab was still open in the background.
Talk to her? But not in bed, maybe?
Communication is key…
The obvious would be to discuss it with her, it might be curiosity on her part, she might get turned on by watching it although she might not have any intention of ever wanting to participate in such a sexual encounter.
I wouldn’t read too much into it, but it if it is causing you concern then an open discussion is necessary in my opinion.
I guess we all watch some things that we wouldn’t do in real life?
As long as it’s nothing illegal no harm no foul…
Want to Google it but at work…
I know this is stating the obvious, but porn isn’t real, by that I mean that just because she watches it and may get turned on by it, doesn’t mean she wants it.
I watch gay gang bangs, that’s not ever going to be a scenario that I envision being a part of 
I wouldn’t even bring it up, she might feel embarrassed and like she’s doing something wrong if she watches it again. She might like the fantasy of it but not the reality. With the DP, do yous have anal sex? Curious if it’s the anal that she’s against.
I do sometimes find porn is similar to youtube in that you end up in all sorts of places that you maybe didn’t intend to.
Also this is a shared laptop, so she knows that you would know…maybe you knowing that she has a dirty wee secret is exciting for her.
She was probably just curious as others have said. If it’s really on your mind you should definitely talk to her though. My search history is questionable simply because I don’t know much about a lot.
You never know she might keep leaving the tabs open for you to find 
then definitely talk haha
I’m with @JoCat. I’d leave that one. It’s just something she watched. It doesn’t mean she’s getting ideas. I mean, I watch Midsomer Murders, but I’m not gathering ways to bump people off.
It is her private time and it needs to stay that way.
I agree. Use it to your advantage as an insight. I wouldn’t touch the subject, honestly. I know communication is preached here, but sometimes things are good left unsaid until it is time.
When it’s time, it’s time. You will know.
I agree with what others have said and not even mention it. I watched two men and one woman plenty of times but have no interest in that in real life.
I wouldn’t be alarmed at all. Worlds of difference between fantasy and actual desires. We enjoy fantasies and even indulge roleplay around things that we would never want in real life.
If you want to talk about it, outside the bedroom is always a lower pressure space. You can just say, “hey, you left the computer on a spit-roasting video.” Follow with your thoughts (“I thought it was very sexy” or “that was an unexpected category to see”) or a question (“is that a favorite category/something new/a fantasy of yours?”). And if it leads to talking more about fantasies and desire, you may find yourself back in the bedroom soon enough.
My advice is to back her onto a suction dildo stuck on the bathroom wall then stick your penis in her mouth. 
As others have said, there’s a world of difference between fantasy and reality.
My wife and I watch porn from time to time. Sometimes together, sometimes independently. Our tastes vary and we’ve talked about that. For example, she has enjoyed watching MFF threesomes yet would never consider doing that for real. We both enjoy watching group sex and orgies, but would never actually take part.
Another thing we both learned about searching out what we see as a healthy piece of visual stimuli in a healthy sex life, is that descriptive terms needed for searching are often graphic and quite off putting!
As @JoCat and @KinkyMira say, leave it alone.
People may have a bit of a fantasy but only ever want it to be that.
You could say you watched a tab she left open and you enjoyed it…not questioning, just a passing comment. She might then say more about it.
Might be time to invest in a suction cup dildo…
Have the tools to make a possible fantasy happen…
What about suggesting watching porn together and ask her for suggestions. See how she reacts and go from there. If she doesnt suggest spitroast, then you could consider suggesting it and see how things develop……
Gonna echo what others have said, she may have been searching, she may find that’s her turn on, but it’s not real, it’s fantasy.
My hubby found my search history of porn, and to put it bluntly he didn’t like it, he got upset, confused and really didn’t understand, that just because I enjoy myself over, doesn’t mean that’s what I want, far from it.
I think alone time fun, is just that.
I think your reading too much into it. Watching it does not automatically means she wants it. Communicate with her.
Yeah, don’t worry about it, plenty of stuff turns me on to watch but I’d never want to participate. It might be any easy Christmas idea though - LH sell some amazing thrusting vibes with suction cups. A little bit of planning of angles and positions and you can create your own spitroast with just the two of you. We stick ours on the mirrored wardrobes at ‘doggy style height’, my husband then gets a BJ at the same time as I get serviced by the vibe. An enjoyable experience for all concerned but it’s still not given me any desire to try it ‘for real’.
Thanks all, appreciate the feedback!