Advice wanted - best techniques to use on my wife.

Morning All,

I really enjoying going down on my wife and licking her pussy. She loves to receive oral this way however I am looking for new techniques so I can surprise her and continue to blow her mind.

I currently lick her clit in a circular motion alternating between clockwise and anti clockwise. I also lick up and down giving a gentle bite and suck. 99 times out 100 I can get her come already.

However I was just wondering if there are any other techniques that gets the thumbs up and gets the OH reaching the big O.

Thanks in advance

My partner does different things each time so I don’t know what to expect and it’s not repetitive. I think him writing the alphabet with his tongue is my favourite thing though.

Maybe one of these guides would be worth looking into?

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33067

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29380

Hey NatandTom,

Thanks for reply. The alphabet writing is something I have never heard of before so will defo give that a try, I can imagine the tongue covering all areas of the clit doing that.

The books could be a good idea, just thought I would try get some inspiration from here first lol

Thanks again

Hey Alicia4ever,

Thanks for your reply, I do occasionally use fingers while down on the Mrs. I also passionately kiss her pussy, similar to how I would kiss her on the mouth. This seems to get her going also.

There's a thread here that's worth a read:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/1662609-cunninglingus-tips/

Also go down on her in different positions: while she's standing up, face down, on all fours. You'll get access at different angles which will make it feel different for her.

Firstly - perhaps try sucking a fisherman's friend for a nice menthol feeling for her. Blowing on her during this is also a thing.

Long flat tongue strokes are always good too


Hot and cold with ice cubes and mouth perhaps?

Clit pumps are supposed to be good, but not tried this

Tease play by licking and kissing her everywhere but there, until she pulls your head into her, patience is fundamental here!

Honey or something sticky, a LH product perhaps.

Shave her, and softly rinse her, starting the play early?

Sucking a wet clit in and out of your mouth at a quick pace?

My favourite, once she cums, press your finger on her clit with a firm pressure, restricting blood flow, she'll hover around orgasm for longer, usually until she pushes you away!

I consider myself a cunnilingus ninja and can lick a peach for hours, just love doing this and find it amazing.