Hello, please can I have your opinion. My wife said last night that I'm Bi !!!!. This all started when the other day I was so horny that I wore her stocking, suspenders and G string. I like to wear her thongs sometimes as her pussy has been there. She had not worn these for ages.
the other facts are - ilike pussy too much, I like being done with the strap on, I could not suck a guy off, I love my wife, I love wearing her thongs as it turns me on. She is "on" at the moment so is grumpy.
Am I Bi or straight or weird?
I think you are just straight but you like to explore things that's all.
Straight but just want to add abit of kink to your sex life x
Nothing wrong with being Bi, Straight, Gay or anything else for that matter but if you dont find the same sex attractive or want to be with them physically you are straight regardless of what you do with or without your wife.
Rest assured your straight, unless you find men and women sexually attractive then you would be bi. It's ok to experiment with new things, everyone is curious and likes to try new things.xx
Avrielle_Aniko wrote:
*Sigh* Such a common misconception.
Don't worry, you are not bisexual or gay.
You might be considered as wanting to start becoming cross-dresser, since you enjoy dressing in clothes of the other sex, but from what you have said it sounds to me that it isn't the thrill or enjoyment of dressing in womens clothes, but rather the thrill and enjoyment of being close to your wife in a different way, putting on her knickers that have been around her pussy and having those knickers around your penis. A closeness thing.
But it may be that you do enjoy dressing up. A little kink of yours showing through. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that what-so-ever and it absolutely does not make you suddenly want to have sex with men! It may become a piece of your own personal sexual identity, if you want it to, but it certainly won't become or change your sexual status.
Exactly the same applies for enjoying having a strap-on used on you. There are plenty of absolutely straight males on these forums alone who very much enjoy using anal toys for pleasure. Men also have the prostate which when stimulated can provide a lot of pleasure and it is also possible to orgasm from anal alone. Quite a lot of women enjoy anal of some form or another too, even 100% lesbians. It is just a pleasurable, sexual thing. It does not at all mean that you think about men while enjoying it!
The only advice I have to give you is to talk to your wife about this when she is in a reasonable mood at a reasonable time. Explain to her how it makes you feel to wear some of her clothes and maybe talk to her about you trying it again. It is silly to think that wearing a pair of womens knickers makes you like men. Tell her how much you love her and respect her, (otherwise you may not even be having this conversation), and explain it so she may even feel a little silly for calling you bi.
The important thing here is that if you do enjoy it and want to continue enjoying it, you will have to get her on your side as I would not suggest to secretly raid her underwear drawer while she is out...
Thank you very much for the good advice. You are great. Will speak to her. Regards. R
The idea that you might be bi clearly troubles you enough to prompt you to open this thread to ask the question. Seems your wife's comment may have touched a nerve. Why do you think that is? Do you dislike the idea of being bi? If so, how do you feel about others being bi, or gay for that matter?
That you enjoy a strap-on doesn't come into it. Your bottom is anatomically more or less the same as any other bloke's and the pleasurable sensations are the same whether it is a penis or strap-on so if a guy penetrated you then you would enjoy it.
I would suggest having a look at some gay porn, but with an open mind, and see how you respond to such visual and mental stimuli. If you find that the idea of sex with a bloke excites you then it is up to you if you want to go any further i.e. fantasy is one thing, reality is something else.
Hi all,
Spoke to wife and sorted it out . Not bi, I explained why I did it and fine.
Thank you.