Hello peeps, would love some advice. I love sex and masturbate most days too. My last masturbation session i spun my rabbit round so the ears were stimulating my ass and they may have gone in a little bit. I loved it and came really hard and thinking about someone i shouldnt have been may have helped too. After, i tried my finger and found i was pretty open but a bit scared to shove it all the way in as i have never tried anal and was very much thinking i never could. However, i am thinking i would like to try it in my masturbation sessions but unsure how to start. Any advice for me please xxxx
Well, a finger is a good place to start if your nails are short and you use some lube. Just get used to running it around the rim, pressing and massaging gently around the bud until you get used to it, then gently press it in. As long as you go gently and use plenty of lube you'll be fine. You may want to invest in a beginner's plug like the Tracey Cox http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21767 or a starter kit like the Beginners Basic Triple http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22287 and see how you get on.
With anal I recommend lube for a more pleasurable experience. Being really turned on helps a lot too, so stimulating yourself elsewhere before hand can help. Expolre at your own pace and maybe invest in a small plug. :-)
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build up to it slowly
all the advice above is good
Not much to add apart from you can never have enough lube! I find fingers don't do it for me, but try one of the beginners butt plugs (the one recommended before is perfect!). Use a condom on it and it's quicker and easier to clean too. Enjoy!
You might want to try having an orgasm first, in your "normal" way - your climax might help relax your bottom a little.
To start experimenting, maybe play in the bath, or in front of a mirror, and first just gently touch your anus and the area around it - gently circling and stroking, and getting used to the sensations.
When you feel bolder, try pressing slightly more firmly against your sphincer, and do take your time - nice and slowly. Hopefully, you'll find that your anus will, subtly, relax and open up, and your finger (or dildo) will slip just inside. Enjoy that sensation - it's really nice.
As you get more confident, and familiar with what you're doing, you can get start to go in a little deeper, and then take it from there.
Have fun!
Julie_L wrote:
You might want to try having an orgasm first, in your "normal" way - your climax might help relax your bottom a little.
To start experimenting, maybe play in the bath, or in front of a mirror, and first just gently touch your anus and the area around it - gently circling and stroking, and getting used to the sensations.
When you feel bolder, try pressing slightly more firmly against your sphincer, and do take your time - nice and slowly. Hopefully, you'll find that your anus will, subtly, relax and open up, and your finger (or dildo) will slip just inside. Enjoy that sensation - it's really nice.
As you get more confident, and familiar with what you're doing, you can get start to go in a little deeper, and then take it from there.
Have fun!
nice words, and i;ll add relax relax and relax and lube lube lube it..
train yourself and good luck
xoxo
J.J.
Thanks you lovely lot for the advice. Will definitely give anal a go x