Hi I'm new.
I want to try some anal toys. I'm thinking of one of the small anal vibrators as. I just want something small to start with. Can anyone recommend any that are safe and won't get sucked in? They all seem to have pretty small bases and I am aware of the suction issue and probably just over cautious but can't think of anything more embarassing than having a trip to A&E haha.
Thanks
You could alway try a starter kit, this will give you a few different options for you to experiment with. Also you shouldn't have to worry about it getting sucked in, unless you push it all the way. It has never happened to myself or my fiancee and we have one with a smaller base :)
Hope this helps a little.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30367
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Basically make sure that any toy that you get has a flared base - this is specifically to stop it from getting lost!
If you have a look here, there's a great selection of toys for beginners:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/beginners-anal-toys/
Butt plugs are always a good place to start. They come in so many different sizes, that you can start of small, and work your way up as you get used to it!
Make sure you also get a good quality anal lube and take it slow! Patience and calmness are your best friends when first starting out with anal toys.
I can't make any personal recommendations - all of the toys I have are not suited to a beginner unfortunately!
This is really really good for beginners http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16665 I am far from beginner, but it still gets used regularly. It's on 2 for £15, and I'd recommend getting 2 as after a few months play you might want to replace it!
Thanks for all the replies. I think I should probably let my partner know what I'm thinking of getting first as he isn't very adventurous at all. I'll still probably get one, or maybe the starter pack even just for myself. Why not?
It's perfectly acceptable to buy toys just for yourself! I've been with my partner almost 10 years, and I still buy stuff just for me!
Yeah think I'm going to go for it. I think it makes him feel insecure for some reason but everyone masturbates. You only live once. I'm hoping he'll enjoy seeing me use them once I get them. Fingers crossed.
Having a plug in during sex makes you feel tighter too ;)
Hey, anyone know a good way to work to anal as my OH wants to do some anal play but as one of my ex's was a jurk (he use to poke my hole as a punishment). I would like to do some single play frist to get comfortable with it ..... anyone know best toys for self play?
I had a similar experience with an ex Xan123. Thats why I want to start small. Luckily my partner isn't really into anything anal so it's been my own choice to try it again with someone I trust (if he will, i still havent asked him haha). Good luck finding the right toy. All of the toys in the links above look pretty painless for begginers.
I'm just starting off down this road and got this just to get used to the sensations etc. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16479
Hope this helps :)
notmadetomeasure wrote:
Hi I'm new.
I want to try some anal toys. I'm thinking of one of the small anal vibrators as. I just want something small to start with. Can anyone recommend any that are safe and won't get sucked in? They all seem to have pretty small bases and I am aware of the suction issue and probably just over cautious but can't think of anything more embarassing than having a trip to A&E haha.
Thanks
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22772
I think this will fit all your needs, good small and inexpensive first butt vibe and as it has a electrical lead as reassurance too not losing it. Can recommend it. Welcome to the LH forums.
Any thing small with a falred base from LH nice and small and then work up to large and larger items you will love the feeling of being full and stretched!!! Maybe one day you will use an inflateable plug to see really how far you can go!???
Next step up could be after a butt plug you could buy a kit and work your way up - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539
I then got a douche -http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=952 simple dead and makes you clean esp when your using bigger toys as I worked my way up to an anal dildo to get to used to the fact that he will be inside me - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16726
Then I brought this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17072
Honestly try it slow if you enjoy it you enjoy it its not for everyone, dont put any pressure on yourself slow and lube lots of it
You could look for something beaded too... so you can work your way up size wise with just one toy to begin with :)
Oh my god, I dont think i'll ever be adventurous enough for a full on dldo. It looks so scary. You never know though...
Im definately going to try something beaded and something vibrator-y. I'll probably get the set for beginners. Thanks for alll the replies
I have gone for these:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2219
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14535
I just hope my OH willl play with me and not freak out 
notmadetomeasure wrote:
I had a similar experience with an ex Xan123. Thats why I want to start small. Luckily my partner isn't really into anything anal so it's been my own choice to try it again with someone I trust (if he will, i still havent asked him haha). Good luck finding the right toy. All of the toys in the links above look pretty painless for begginers.
Thank you and you have good luck. I'm sure your OH won't freak out.
Yay. My OH is fine with anal play as long as it doesn't involve his bum. Ha ha. Thanks for all advice. I can't wait