Who has never done anal but would like to try with their partner ???
Yes. I'm trying to slowly work my way up to it with gradual growing plug sizes. So, hopefully one day I'll manage anal sex if I can.
I really want to try some strapon fun, we've been working our way through quite a few other Lovehoney toys on the way to it. It's a big taboo barrier to break through if you're not naturally that way inclined, but I'm hopeful :)
Never done anal but not sure really.... Never something I've been very very inclined to do.
Currently trying to persuade Mr Delightful to start building me up! I’m intrigued to see what it does for me :)
Always wanted to be pegged, currently building OH up to try
Me and my OH tried it last night I pushed my finger inside her but not all the way said she didn't like it so I pulled it out I've not given up hope and will definitely try again when the time is right
Same with us, we tried a finger at first, but I don't think the moment was right ? So might try again sometime, without forcing the issue & if the moment is really right for both of us, we'll see where it leads ?
I just love giving the OH sexual pleasure And exploring every bit of her body I always make sure she cums 1st to me that's so important
No. I think we are on the outer edges of vanilla and it has never appealed to either of us. But sometimes, when his fingers brush over that point, in the heat of the moment I do find myself wondering what it would be like (just a finger)... so far neither of us are curious enough to explore, tho. And we are both very happy with what we do.
I sometimes wonder if it feels better for men than women - going by conversations on this forum it would seem not, but that might be because we are all enlightened and sensitive, skilled people. I’m not sure I would trust young men to be the same, but it seems to be highlighted as the norm in porn - I’d like to know how younger women feel about it.
I adore anal when I'm in the mood. But it is not something i do every time, maybe once or twice a month? It is worth saying the sometimes during penetration (finger, buttplug, dildo or cock) it is worth a pause, more lube then push again to go deeper & more pleasure. It is what works for me xxx
Thank you I may just try that next time I think when your in a loving relationship the sex just gets better and better because it actually means something I must admit we are both enjoying sex now we are that little bit older and long may it continue
We first tried anal about 3 years ago. It was a spontaneous thing, neither of us had ever tried anal before. Now both of us get the most intense feelings and sensations when we do. As we're in a very close, loving relationship, we discuss everything including how sex affects us. My lady described her feelings when I am penetrating her anus and wanted me to experience something similar, so we have now tried pegging. Wow, that has taken me to levels of feelings and emotion I certainly didn't expect!
Tried Anal a few times in the past but when we were both younger and I have to say Drunker not sure we got much out of it, however over the years without drink I have been surprisingly invited even categorically told to finger my OH Anus whilst going down on her.
She really seems to like it, she certainly seemed to liked the odd ocations I have rimmed her also but full Anal is not something she seems to want at this time so I leave it to her, if when she wants to explore it I will of course be happy to try, at this time we are bringing toys back it to sex so without any pressure we will see what happens.
Got to agree with HM as I am more anally experienced that my wife, but when we met we have always been fully open and discussed everything with no embarrassment or judgement.
We have regular anal play whether it involve a tongue, fingers, butt plugs or over the past year my good wife has been introduced to pegging myself to heaven and back and she thoroughly enjoys it as she orgasms from it especially when we use the 9" vibrating dildo in the harness.
With anal it is a case of talking and taking things slowly until you can take bigger, longer or girthier toys, myself am a girth monster and just enjoy that stretched feeling and deep penetrations when my wife takes me from behind and gives my ass a good hard pounding. But for others a gentle fingering or small vibrator being used is also enough to enlighten the sensitive nerve endings to the same pleasureable ending.
When I first tried anal it hurt and put me off fit quite some time. I now know that the pain was a result of minimal lubrication, an above average husband in the penis department and too much too quickly. We went back to it about a year later after researching the subject both factually and erotically. I still took us quite some time before we achieved full penetration and are patience was rewarded as we avoided anymore incidents of pain. From our experience we would fully recommend the slow approach to learning how to pleasure with anal play. I now peg me husband and we both love it. How we overcame his fears of my strap on is another interesting story
Me!
i would really really love to try it. top of my sexual bucket list now.
I had seen it in porn and know other ffriends had tried it, always seemed a messy ball ache compared to vaginal plus my OH had exs to tried the oops wrong hole trick. So never really featured in our future repoitee of things to try and frankly i was complete ignorant about how messy and how it feels for women when done right, assumed it was a male tightness/nautghtyness thing,
Signing up to lovehoney changed that! Saw the extensive range of bum products which piqued my interest, thought well people must be buying, so must be something in it. Reading the fourms with lots of people (male and female) raving about it convinced me it was worth adding to things to try.
So i am onboard and have got into it personally, better late than never!
Unfortunately my OH isnt, i have shown her the forums talked her through it and would love her to get off on it, i would love to do anal play on her with anal sex ultimately and would be happy for her to do same to me. Shes up for other things but she has had such a conservative upbringing that she cannot get over it being a no go zone, she is still grossed out by the idea even though we have talked about it. Even if i accidentally touch her there she tends to cringe. Unfortunately its something i have to accept and hope she eventually feels like trying it.
Must be said Lovehoney has opened my eyes in a good way!
We haven't tried it, yet. Know it's something that the missus feels bit funny about. I'm just getting started myself with booty buddy, see if the prostate massage works for me.
There are times when my wife encourages me to jump on board with some bum fun. So yes, we do anal. But no often. She says she does it because it turns me on so much. In fact she says it turns her on seeing me so horny. But I am not sure she really enjoys it. It always seems to work best after copious amounts of wine, build up and a little finger and tongue play.
My current other half hasn't done it since her horrible ex boyfriend basically messed her about. She says she is keen to try it with me but I won't rush her at all. We've had plugs in each other's bottom during sessions etc, but in the past year or so, she seems to have developed IBS symptoms and refused to put anything near bottom until it is settled.