@BadGirlBinge Hello and welcome ! This reminds me of a girl that was friends with my buddy’s wife and wanted me pretty bad . I finally decided it was time to hook up . I picked her up and brought her to my house and made her a nice dinner and then took her to my biker bar with a live band where we danced and had a few drinks . I knew she was half way through chiropractic school and about to head back to school . We took a quick shower and she gave me the best and most sensual massage I have ever had . Might note she was in pretty good shape and I had been into body building for three years . We pleasured each other for half the night . She flew back to school two days later and we never saw each other again .I hope she kept that memory for many years .
Yes, I like it very much.
You know , pretty much everyone on the forums are into every kind of kinky stuff you can imagine . We play “hard” and intense and use so many toys . I wonder how many people remembering , that is if they ever did , a sensual evening of lite touches , caressing , kisses and tongue tracing . Granted as we get older , we may not be able to be flexible for some of it . But I fondly remember planning an evening of foreplay that could last an hour or two . Have the temp warm enough so she is not chilled . Fresh sheets on the bed , both take a shower , light some candles and take turns treating each other to relax and enjoy . Some times a lite massage along with kissing her while she lays face down . Starting at her ankles , up her legs , cheeks just kissing , caressing , I found that if I ran my tongue from the base of her spine all the way up to her neck , drove her wild . A real lite massage of her shoulders and neck and kissing her neck right up to her ear lobes was a favorite of hers . Then have her lay on her back and repeat , though I had a habit of spending a lot of time on her pussy , nipples and often French kissing . Then if she was able to contain her animalistic urges , I could receive the same treatment . I think I almost miss that more than penetration itself . When kids were still at home it was especially tough to get the privacy . But when they were offloaded for a night , it was a special romantic night . Just wanted to remind people of the magical time that can be had if you pause and take a little extra time to connect with your partner .
I absolutely love this too, the longer the foreplay lasts the better. And lighter touches make the build-up more gradual, and intense.
We’re lucky as we both work from home that we can make time for sex pretty much daily, but it does sometimes mean we rush this part.
Not complaining! Just wish that every time could be an hour (or whatever) of build-up/caressing, before we let go and lose control.
We sometimes gently caress each other for an hour or more and it doesn’t always end up with full blown sex, it’s just how the mood takes us on the day.
Soft stroking is an amazing way to build up to sex. One of the best. My favourite part - to give and receive - is to stroke right past the genital area of either person without touching it. Each pass makes the receiver wonder if this one will connect and the more you do, the more electrifying it is when the touch finally hits the spot
It’s definitely something my OH has always enjoyed - it was an absolute delight to discover this early on when we were travelling on the train once, I’d been gently caressing her legs and was amazed to discover how much an effect it had on her by the time we got to our hotel!! She still enjoys it and is lots of fun during foreplay!! I like it but it doesn’t quite have the same effect!! 