Handjob done right is the bee’s knees in my view. I’m not talking a wee rub, tug and cum on the rug. Take your time, start very slowly, use proper massage oil. Make it last 30 mins minimum! Google lingam massage and do some research.
Haven’t had many blowjobs to be honest, I’m a tad girthy around the head. Once did a clone a Willy kit and curiosity got the better if me. I struggled to get my clone very far, so can’t be easy for woman 
My wife tends to do both at the same time. Its rare to just have a pure BJ without also hand action, and pure hand action can sometimes just lead into a BJ. Seem to be fairly interlinked for me
Got to agree with @Happypantycouple. Combination of both. My Mrs does amazing things when she uses her mouth and hands on me. Definitely gets the toes curling.
Very difficult choice. I’m gonna have to go with bj though
It’s been a very long time now, but I always preferred a BJ.
Hand job for me.
I must be one of the very few fellas who isn’t really into blow jobs .
A mixture of both, am I being greedy? My wife gives amazing bj’s and mixes it with a hand job at the same time. Although she has to be turned on to let me cum in her mouth.
Both, but if I had to choose I have to go with a BJ.
But if my wife is playing with my bum stimulating my prostate with her finger, her fist or a toy and giving me a handjob with her other well lubed hand, I really can’t control myself.
Also would love to experience to give a BJ to someone during a threesome or foursome
I thoroughly enjoy both. I especially like when she has the head of my dick between her freshly lipsticked lips and is wanking me in to her mouth. Frankly a lubed up mouth, hand, tit combination is heaven.
You know on the second visit to this thread I looked at it different . My previous reply was about me recieving one or the other . But recently I have been sampling some male/females porn and the thought struck me that I have never given either . After watching a particular person , I would not mind trying both with her/he . But for oral , must be a hairless “work” area .
Much prefer a BJ however i do enjoy a HJ if its lubed and gloves
Much rather give a blow job than give a hand job…always thought that he was obviously good at hand jobs himself.
Not only that I get off from giving them…the texture…the taste…hearing the pleasureable groans…and everything else about them.
I would rather give the husband a blow job over a hand job . As soon as I see his hard cock I want it in my mouth.
I’m the same, as soon as I see his cock rock hard I want to put it in my mouth, and that’s where it’ll end up 
I just love everything about it. Giving him that pleasure and hearing him enjoy it. It turns me on too. Especially when he talks dirty to me.
The texture and taste of him, especially when he cums in my mouth, feeling him pulsating 
I much prefer receiving a BJ, though a proper BJ almost certainly includes plenty of hands. It’s very rare that I cum from oral alone, but that doesn’t diminish my enjoyment in any way.
My wife much prefers to give a BJ. She says it is one of her biggest turn-ons, especially while I talk dirty to her. When I do cum from oral it’s a special treat for both of us; she loves swallowing a good load.
In the past when i received a BJ, the ladies never swallowed, they always spat it out, I often wished they would have swallowed it.
My problem is I get turned on by him to quick so end up having an orgasm before I want to, on the plus side i get to carry on and have multiple orgasm’s
BJ, both receiving and giving
BJ blow job for me my wife is amazing at them. Still comes up with some new moves. She locks and sucks my balls, perineum and occasionally rims me (which I enjoy).
Most of the time we warm up for sex with her giving me a bj.
Either her laying down and me kneeling over her (dominating but bit of a crazy angle).
Me on my back which is comfy. Or her kneeling and me standing up.
When we were first dating she used to be swallow me loads of times before we started having sex.
Now just once in a blue moon I’ll be lucky enough to receive a blowjob direct and not as a warm up for sex (she seems to get turned on from licking and sucking me).
It was on my wish list for us to have PIV and for me to finish to finish in her mouth.
After that she said she found the taste of herself on me cwey sweet / too sweet for her to enjoy but will hopefully get her to do that again sometime. I think she tastes amazing 
Literally the same 