Hi, I have lurked here for a few months, so I am sorry my first post is asking for help.
My 22 y/o daughter, who still lives with us, has written me an 8 page letter complaining that for her entire childhood she has had to endure overhearing my OH and I having sex. This follows an argument a dew days ago in which she overheard us, and started throwing things around the room, and then turned the vacuum on and left it running. ( We had obviously stopped by this point anyway :( )
Now, we are NOT a noisy couple! Until earlier this year, sex was very bland and traditional. and TBH, for the last few years, we probably only had sex once every couple of months. That has now massively improved, thanks to lovehoney, but we still aren't noisy! The bed creaks, but sadly we can't change that, and yes, there is a bit of groaning at climax, but no shrieking and wailing!
We used to live in old house, and daughters room was the furthest from ours, and didn't share any walls. 8 years ago - daughter 14 y/o - we moved into a newer house. Daughter chose the room above ours. She chose it because it was the biggest of the attic rooms, and she has too many clothes.
We also have twin boys, now 18. They haven't said anything / shown any sign of overhearing us.
I have asked to meet my daughter when she finishes work, to discuss things, and she has agreed.
What do I say???
Any help/tips gratefully received :)