My other half loves dirty talking in bed, I want to but in the moment I never know what to say apart from the usual. Anyone got any tips
Adjectives: discribe OH, what is being done, why you like it... just be vocal and use lots of discriptors. Works for (on) me!
There's some great tips in this thread :)
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/753076-do-you-talk-dirty/
DavidB1986 wrote:
There's some great tips in this thread :)
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/753076-do-you-talk-dirty/
+1 You beat me to it David - lol :) xx
haha great minds think alike ;) xx
Thank u guys x
Try being quite descriptive about the sex, e.g. that feels like you're sliding a stick of fat rock inside of me...
My OH likes this too and I'm now starting to enjoy it myself. I find describing what's happening/how you're feeling/fantasies always go down well and don't forget to compliment. It could be how they looked other day or what they're doing right now but that'll give an ego boost and then that'll improve the sex. We all love a boost ;)
Miss12 wrote:
My other half loves dirty talking in bed, I want to but in the moment I never know what to say apart from the usual. Anyone got any tips
A big turn on for us guys is to have your OH ask or beg for our come. Where ever you want it. esp. a facial or on your breasts if you dont like it on you face. To have your OH looking up at you pleading with you to come on her is wonderful. Allso as he comes tell him how amazing it looks coming out and how good it feels. Hope this helps
Commit to the moment. If you worry about it, thats when things come out a little dry. What ever it is.. how it feels, what you want him/her to do etc... just let it pour. :)
My OH loves talking dirty also in bed and i love it, but as soon as she asks me i just dunno what to say
amandammmm wrote:
I'm not very good at talking dirty, sometimes I feel a bit silly doing it.
But I agree about "cum worship" my partner loves it when I beg for his cum.
Begging for his cum in my ass, in my mouth, down my throat, etc,
One time I was on my hands and knees and I was begging for it, he cummed in my hands and I licked it up. That was fun!!
Seize the moment!!!
Hot hot hot, there you are miss12
amandammmm wrote:
Thank you GG! ;)
You are most welcome great advice. As it comes from one woman and one man must be a winner
Start off tame then work up....like the following:
You're so hot, you have amazing body etc.. .blah blah. This is the tame stuff.
Then work up to dirty questions:
I bet you love getting fucked like this. I bet you love sucking my cock.
Then work up to calling her dirty names, then really dirty names:
You're such a dirty girl, such a filthy slut. You're such a cock whore
Secretly I'm pretty sure my OH wants to be a really filthy dirty slut.
The trick is to start off easy then go all the way. The middle ground just sounds like cheesy porno to me. Also, the filthy talk usually ends up with me getting more dominant and ends up with some spanking/slapping, which is kinda the point of dirty talk, to get really hot and horny ;)
Not really dirty but love it when my other half says "good girl or dirty girl as soon as I'm about to cum"
Complement her with dirty words always works a treat x