First time prostate massager

Ordered my first prostate massager today, I have Also ordered some
anal lube bearing this in mind are they easy to insert

Which one did you order? On the whole they aren't tricky to insert,
and you definitely did right ordering lube! Is this first time butt
stuff for you, or have you experience with other stuff? No more tricky
than a plug; but it does depend on the individual and experience and the like!

I ordered the mantric remote control, it will the first time however a
previous partner did insert her finger and I had intense orgasm but that
was a long time ago just plucked up the courage to experience that same feeling

The mantric is awesome! You'll get good value for money from that -
it's not at all tricky to insert. First familiarise yourself with the
controls...! I go for a position lying on my side with my dominant
right side facing upwards, then rasing my knee slightly towards my
stomach, apply lube to both toy and my butt. Make sure you use plenty
of lube - put it on teh tip of the toy and with your index finger just
make sure the whole of the upper section is covered in lube. Then with
knee still raised, i slowly insert the toy, sometime i find a very
gentle pulsating thrusty type motion helps, and someimes i need to push
harder than others. The mantric has a good base for your to be able to
comfrtably grip, but if it won't go in, don't be afraid to push a little
harder, but if it hurts then stop! My trajetory of insertion is kind of
like an arc, almost following the shape of the toy. If you find it too
chunky, try something smaller first, a (clean/gloved) finger tip may be
enough, but if you don't like the sound of that then get a wee butt
plug! fun times ahead...!