Ok, any comments or advice is welcome on this subject lol.
I'm seeing an absolutely amazing guy, but so far nothing has happened sexually. Due to a bad relationship in the past I've been wary, however, we've discussed it and were going away in a couple of weeks for the night.
I'm so excited but at the same time very nervous, I've never managed to orgasm through intercourse and through foreplay I try and fight the urge. However, I want this to be different. Any ideas how to let myself go? Any ideas about how the evening should progress? We've discussed it in vague detail as I don't want to worry him and make it so he's unable to relax.
Any ideas welcome, I need as much help as I can get!
Just avoid planning it and do what feels right, it's always going to be a bit of a nervous/akward situation but i'm sure (if you let it) everything will flow just fine. Don't hold back and just enjoy.
Just go with the flow...
Do what feels right and just say stop if you start to feel uncomfortable. Another good thing is to just take it slow on the evening nothings better than building it up slowly gives you an amazing orgasam at the same time and you will be so relaxed things will fall into place..
Another way is maybe sugest he gives you a massage first? Get you in the relaxed mood?!
Relax, but don't worry about whether or not you're relaxed because that wont help one bit!
Just go slowly and see what happens. Don't expect or feel that anything has to happen, just go with the flow as my bad said. Hopefully you'll get on like a house on fire and the air will be so thick with sexual tension that you won't need to think about anything because your mind will be on far more important things...
well sex is all in head, like i and everyone else is saying ! relax take it slow build up and enjoy, and over plan build up to presure on yourself, and don't be to dissapoint if it does go to plan the first time, it's all good fun learning the ropes...ect
Don't expect it to be perfect! If it's too planned or thought out it's only going to make it harder! Some very sexy lingerie will definately help and put the emphasis on just having an amazing experience and not on having an orgasm.
Take the pressure out of it all and I'm sure you'll have an amazing time! x
Lmxx now if you were into walking you could go for a scramble and try taking a shower together when you get back, let him go first and offer to scrub his back, takes the worry about what your doing wayy and let nature take its course!!
(I was going to add 'laugh if it all gets tense' cos thats how I deal with the first time issue- if you can have fun who gives a crap if you rock the world?! Actually, first time I actually had full sex with the bloke, I was drunk... not as a way to deal, just because, well house party, and one thing leads to the next lol).