We have been trying for a while to get my hand into her pussy. I just cannot seem to get passed my fingers. Any tips on going further . We always use plenty of lube.
How big are your hands?
Has she been warming up with toys daily before you try your hand?
I recommend getting a toy what can gradually stretch so in time you’ll then be able to fit all the way in
Slow and steady wins the race!
Good advice from @AJSTAR. Maybe have a look at an inflatable dildo? Inflatables give the stretch without the discomfort of inserting something large. Once your OH has played with the inflatable toy for a bit, she might feel more able to take more of your hand. As you’ve already mentioned, lots of lube and being as relaxed and aroused as possible is really important.
A word of advice from experience on this, if she has the coil fitted, fisting can move it, and stop it from working, our daughter is the proof of this!
It can take a long time. With some girls, it may not even be possible, depending on bone structure. For me, it took nearly a year to get my GF’s whole hand inside. I had to stretch little by little, and it took work. I still probably couldn’t get my husband’s hand inside…but considering that I started out barely being able to take two fingers, its a big change.