i love my hubby going down on me and i know he culd spend hours there if i could take it that long my only problem is i dont like the idea of going down on him i know im a cow, anyway im sure i make up for it in other ways. I know he would love it if i was to do this to him and to be fair i think i wont to try it again last time was many years ago and it was not great for me or him think i went to far down.
anyway i guess what i need to do is just suck half way mainly top of him to make sure we both enjoy it.
The othe thing i want to know is i was thinking i may try it with a condom on first time think maybe strawberry been looking on LH and have seen some fusion ones which are nice and cheap and as i dont need them for anything else but this im tempted with these or do you think i need to by durex ones which would be a multipack and a lot more cash. Im after some ideas if any brand taste or smell better than the othere and is the exra money worth it
Haha, you are just like my wifey! She doesn't give oral favours either.
Not sure about the flavoured condom idea personally, as I think they still taste (and feel) like rubber. If the purpose of the condom is to catch what comes out, then I guess I can see it, but you could just as easily pull away and finish by hand.
As for technique, I'm probably far from the best person to say, but the sensitive bit is the head. Just play around that bit with your lips and tongue, no real need to go deep if you are just starting out. Don't forget you have hands too, so you could stroke the shaft with your hand, while licking and sucking the end.
AA yes that is what i was doing trying to take it all in which i now know is not the way to do it like the sound if the lube i have put it on my wish list and maybe he will check it out and buy it ASAP fancy doing it for him soon. however not to sure about his balls yet one step at a time haha
yeah just been in town but was with kids in tow had a quick look in local boots at the lubes idea sound good think he will like it on me as well if i order on LH how quickly do you think it would take to come
quite often get it next day (there is a more expensive next day service too), but if if you order now, probably thursday, as its getting late this afternoon.
Obviously, thats no guarantee, and I don't work for LH!
I am yet to find a lube that i liek the taste of! I think that they are all far too strong and sweet! I dont have a problem giving oral without lube or a condom but i do have some of these which makes it a little different every now and again:
They are just mints which taste quite nice and they give my oh a totally new sensation! So its a new taste for me and something different for him so its win win. There not expensive either being only £2.99. These ones are made specifically for oral sex but you could just use polos if your really strapped for cash i guess!!
As for technique AA and toycar have very good advise. The head is the most sinsitive bit. I take the head in my mouth and then place my hand on the shaft. If you then move your hand and mouth in unisen up and down his penis then it gives the sensation of you taking all of him in your mouth at once, but your only actually taking the top 1/2 or 1/4!!
What is it you don't like? Taste, smell, feel? There may be other way of compromising. I do think flavoured lubes are a good idea, perhaps start with a wank after he's showered and turn it in to you just sucking the tip.
just not sure think it will be the feel and also he want mind me saying this but he and i think he will come in no time (due to this not being the norm) so dont like the taste and unsure if i will come away in-time
think im just being a wimp going wait for him to come home and look at some lubes maybe the cherry one
just not sure think it will be the feel and also he want mind me saying this but he and i think he will come in no time (due to this not being the norm) so dont like the taste and unsure if i will come away in-time
think im just being a wimp going wait for him to come home and look at some lubes maybe the cherry one
Him cumming is a different issue.External Media A partner should let you know if he gets close and know you have concerns about it, If he's clean and fresh then I can only assume it must be feelings or a mental block. I can't speak from direct experience but if it doesn't taste funky it won't be that different from sucking something else if you have no mental problems with it and he is sensitive to your concerns. Take things slowly and you may learn to love it!
just not sure think it will be the feel and also he want mind me saying this but he and i think he will come in no time (due to this not being the norm) so dont like the taste and unsure if i will come away in-time
think im just being a wimp going wait for him to come home and look at some lubes maybe the cherry one
Him cumming is a different issue.External MediaA partner should let you know if he gets close and know you have concerns about it, If he's clean and fresh then I can only assume it must be feelings or a mental block. I can't speak from direct experience but if it doesn't taste funky it won't be that different from sucking something else if you have no mental problems with it and he is sensitive to your concerns. Take things slowly and you may learn to love it!
I second this - my OH often warns me so I can choose whether or not to swallow.
But if you're OH gave you a little warning then you could switch to hand to 'finish off' rather than doing something you don't yet feel comfortable with.
On the condom front - I'd give it a miss. I have done this and it is very artificial tasting, neither of you have the same sensations because the rubber de-sensitises (sp?) you a little. Flavoured lube is way way forward for the time being I think, gradually use less and less until you don't even feel like you need it anymore.
I also use the hand trick. Move it up and down the shaft in time to you moving your lips/mouth. If you keep rotating your hand and adjusting the strength to which you hold the shaft it gives different sensations for your other half.
looks like its lube not condoms dont think him giving me the call to pull away will be a problem he is very understanding ( he has never pushed me before for this its me who would like to give him some head) i sure its like what W&A said more a mental problem and i dont know why
looks like its lube not condoms dont think him giving me the call to pull away will be a problem he is very understanding ( he has never pushed me before for this its me who would like to give him some head) i sure its like what W&A said more a mental problem and i dont know why
Sounds mental then - I always thought I'd hate sucking cock - turns out I love it!
I think the trick is to make sure he's very, very clean and take your time kissing, licking and sucking him to build up an experience.
If you're not worried about him coming then it seems like your worried about the actual cock tasting a bit funky? In which case, the problem should be made a little better by making sure he's well showered immediately before hand and well dried too. You could shower with him to make sure he's absolutely spotless, use a tiny bit of unscented shower gel and give him a wash/wank! Make sure you pull his foreskin back (if he has one) as that's the bit that "collect" and then you can be sure it's clean.
Then you know it *should* just taste like skin! The longer since the last shower the more "build up" there may be - we cover this by using baby wipes to freshen up between each blowjob but for your first few times you can get him to shower each time for your own piece of mind!
Personally - I think flavoured lubes can have an icky texture where as just skin is soft and smooth and suckable but if it really would help you then it's worth a go!
I used to be like this, honestly I did. But I read somewhere that you've got to really want to do it in your own mind and not think of it being something dirty (not suggesting that you do or anything, simply what I read) and that perhaps keep imagining in your head, maybe when you're turned on yourself, about how much you'd like to do it and imagine what his face would look like when you did. How would you do it etc etc
I imagined for ages what it would be like to do it and then one very horny day I just went with it - didn't end up finishing that way but OH was so pleased I'd tried that we just built up from there.
It sounds like you have an understanding OH who won't push you, so even if you only lick/suck/explore for a short while and then move on to other things, it will get you used to the idea.
The sheer fact you're even asking and looking for ways to do it shows you obviously think you'd like to, so just roll with it and see what happens x
Great replies here - so pleased that you want to try something new and are asking advice!
I really enjoy it when Mrs Monster uses her mouth on me, but it doesn't have to be the clichéed porno-film "deep throat" to be enjoyable for the man, and that certainly would be a lot of work for the woman (/other man) if they could even do it at all. (It's not a common skill, I understand.)
Try making the session more about exploring and enjoying the different textures and lines of his body. Use your hands, too, to explore and tease - don't just grab and pump away! There's much more to the penis than that . . .
When you feel comfortable doing so (or just so horny you don't care!) use your mouth to kiss, lick, blow, nibble (gently!!!!), and suck. Treat him like your favourite ice cream. And if you concentrate on all the little sensations, textures, veins and curves, it won't be "a cock" in its entirety that you're dealing with. That should make it less intimidating, and less tempting for you to just try to swallow the whole thing! Deal with it a bit at a time.
