Has anyone bought their fella a Fleshlight as a gift? I'm thinking of getting one for my boyfriend as we don't live together and only meet up at weekends. I'm sure he would enjoy it, just not sure if he would be embarassed to receive it or use it.
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I was brought one once and at first was a it reluctant to use it but one day decided to and never looked back. Now when my oh away I will use.
Go for it is my advice. We were lucky enough to receive one in return for a review and she used it on me, really good experience. I bet he'll enjoy using it on cold lonely nights. And hot mornings. And medium temperature afternoons. And so on...
Have you thought about choosing one together? I know it ruins the element of surprise, but browsing Lovehoney as a couple can be a lot of fun. 🙂
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Yes, go for it! It's a great gift idea.
I also recommend looking at the Tenga Fliphole range, which are easier to clean and dry than a Fleshlight. (They both feel great, performance-wise.)
I'd say go for it (along with some lube)!
I think there is generally a bit of a paradox with guys, where masturbation is expected but some partners see toys as weird. So if you can encourage him to experiment with strokers then why not.
I'd second the Tenga Fliphole recommendation - looks normal, has lasted years and is really easy to clean. Not exactly realistic looking though so depends what you want.
I wouldnt be upset if my mrs got me one , maybe bring it up jokingly to test his reaction ask him what hes getting you and then jokingly tell him your getting him a fleshlight and see his reaction maybe
It depends on how open minded you believe they are. If toys are a normal part of your play then it will probably go down very well! If you are not sure, I would recommend starting small, with something like a Tenga egg. They are nice and small but should give a good insight!
I’d definitely get him one but it’s how you discuss it after he opens it that matters. I would suggest that you both play with it the first time. You will probably blow his mind. Tell him that you want to know when he uses it again. This will ensure that you can be honest with each other plus you will find it really hot when he tells you over the phone that he is planning to use it or has used it. One tip is get him some lube as well. 😎
I’d definitely get him one but it’s how you discuss it after he opens it that matters. I would suggest that you both play with it the first time. You will probably blow his mind. Tell him that you want to know when he uses it again. This will ensure that you can be honest with each other plus you will find it really hot when he tells you over the phone that he is planning to use it or has used it. One tip is get him some lube as well. 😎
Can recommend https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24226 Bought it two years ago and still love it to this day
It's a fun present idea. I would recommend pretty much anything except the porn star versions of fleshlights. You're paying more for the branding on those. Any other fleshlight brand item will get the job done.
I actually like how carefully the porn star ones are moulded to be realistic. I never thought that would be a factor but they're nicer objects.
unifex wrote:
I actually like how carefully the porn star ones are moulded to be realistic. I never thought that would be a factor but they're nicer objects.
Yeah but I feel like they sacrificed things like material quality and internal texture to keep costs down to deal with things like licensing porn stars. They might be nicer to look at but close your eyes and try and discern two items, and the porn star one would feel worse, in my personal opinion.
Just rember which one it is when opening presents etc!! Don't want to give great auntie Gertrude a heart attack !!
Personally, I'd say go for it.
I think a lot of people still think that the ladies get to have all the fun with sex toys, whether solo, couples or multiples. I think commonly with men there's a stigma around toys.
I always used to think that, and I had the idea in my head that fleshlights simply weren't for me and dismissed the idea - until I ordered one on offer when I was drunk, one of the smartest drunk moves I've made :-)
If you are wanting to do it as a surprise, and not sure how he'd react to opening it, you could take it a little further.
Get the fleshlight and a decent lube and a blindfold. Gift him the blindfold with a note saying this is for you to wear later.
When the time comes, blindfold him and maybe restrain his arms if you think he'd like that, and then let your teasing and pleasing skills take over for a while. Find the right moment to grab the fleshlight and lube, and treat him to his first fleshlight experience delivered by yourself.
I am pretty sure MrNewbie would love it, removes the embarrassment and most likely to continue using. When he goes solo with it he'll have that happy memory to help him through it. By giving him the blindfold earlier and keeping everythign else quiet it will keep him guessing until later comes, I nice build up to the special event!
Obv can only speak for myself, but that would be an awesome experience and of course you can explain his gift after, and as mentioned above, insist he keeps you informed of future uses. You know your man better as to how he'd respond, but I wish you luck!
MK7 wrote:
unifex wrote:
I actually like how carefully the porn star ones are moulded to be realistic. I never thought that would be a factor but they're nicer objects.
Yeah but I feel like they sacrificed things like material quality and internal texture to keep costs down to deal with things like licensing porn stars. They might be nicer to look at but close your eyes and try and discern two items, and the porn star one would feel worse, in my personal opinion.
I've always avoided the porn star ones for same reason. Are you speaking from experience or opinion? Would be nice to know from someone with expereince as to how they feel - as you say, the eyes closed test.
Has anyone put this to the test or offer any further insight on this? I'm intrigued now.
Mr_Kink wrote:
MK7 wrote:
unifex wrote:
I actually like how carefully the porn star ones are moulded to be realistic. I never thought that would be a factor but they're nicer objects.
Yeah but I feel like they sacrificed things like material quality and internal texture to keep costs down to deal with things like licensing porn stars. They might be nicer to look at but close your eyes and try and discern two items, and the porn star one would feel worse, in my personal opinion.
I've always avoided the porn star ones for same reason. Are you speaking from experience or opinion? Would be nice to know from someone with expereince as to how they feel - as you say, the eyes closed test.
Has anyone put this to the test or offer any further insight on this? I'm intrigued now.
Experience. I've owned a lot of fleshlights and the porn star brand fleshlights are by far the worst I've ever used. As a brand, I prefer tenga. But there's plenty of nice fleshlight brand items too that I'd still use.
If you get one you’ll be the best partner ever! They are soooo good! Highly recommend them!
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I've given a small blowjob stroker as a gift to a boyfriend more than a decade ago, haha! I agree with most who commented and I say go for it, but choose something he's very likely to ike.
Either read the reviews, choose one of the products suggested by other members, contact CC for help, or browse on LH with your partner as Ian Chimp suggested. He doesn't need to know you're planning to get him something.
The stroker I got wasn't from LH. It was very small and way too soft/ flexible, so he didn't like it. I'd still give a male masturbation toy as a gift, but would choose something better.
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