Does the idea of your fella using a Fleshlight that is moulded on a specific person's vagina cause you any issues?
Nope, not at all. The idea of my partner enjoying a synthetic reprisentation of someone elses genitals doesn't phase me as it is very unlikely they will begin to develope an emotional attachment to it, haha. Mind you, if they were at the same time looking at images/video of her and calling out her name I might start to get a bit weirded out or if they started to prefer the Fleshlight to me.
Not at all. It's no different to any other fleshlight, really.
Actually I think it's a little wierd. If he had gone out of his way to get one that was moulded on a particular lady then yes I might have a problem with it.
Fr33b1rd wrote:
Actually I think it's a little wierd. If he had gone out of his way to get one that was moulded on a particular lady then yes I might have a problem with it.
Thats kind of what I meant. If he went out of his way to get one of a specific woman's parts and had some kind of infatuation with her it'd bother me, but if it was just one he liked the look of and it happened to be moulded on a particular pornstar's privates I wouldn't mind.
i agree with what everyone aboves said! id love my guy to have a fleashligh but there out of our price range :(
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Fr33b1rd wrote:
Actually I think it's a little wierd. If he had gone out of his way to get one that was moulded on a particular lady then yes I might have a problem with it.
Yeah I agree with this. I don't really mind but if he was really into her, I might feel a bit crap. Toys normally are very good though.
Not to me at all - to me it is just a toy and even if he did fancy a certain girl rotten, it is only fantasy Kind of like the numerous crushes (male and female) that I have from time to time.
However I can see why it might upset a woman. For example, I have no issues with my man looking at porn - or amature pics of girls posted on forums etc. However, when it is a friend, ex or someone he has had an online history with it is a big no-no. For me, the line has to be drawn between fantasy and potential reality for me to be comfortable.
bigbrownblowjobeyes wrote:
Not to me at all - to me it is just a toy and even if he did fancy a certain girl rotten, it is only fantasy Kind of like the numerous crushes (male and female) that I have from time to time.
However I can see why it might upset a woman. For example, I have no issues with my man looking at porn - or amature pics of girls posted on forums etc. However, when it is a friend, ex or someone he has had an online history with it is a big no-no. For me, the line has to be drawn between fantasy and potential reality for me to be comfortable.
Agreed!
Thanks for the replies. Mrs Bugdude said she'd find it kinda wierd knowing it's based on a real person, and I can imagine the selection process might lead to some questions as to why a certain "girl" was chosen. Anyway, it's way too far out of my pricerange at the mo, so back to the bubble wrap and olive oil!
Well, i dont really have this problem, cause my OH doesnt like the idea of a fleshlight, and really doesnt want one, lol, but i understand peoples views with possible obsessions, hehe :)
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Bug Dude wrote:
Thanks for the replies. Mrs Bugdude said she'd find it kinda wierd knowing it's based on a real person, and I can imagine the selection process might lead to some questions as to why a certain "girl" was chosen. Anyway, it's way too far out of my pricerange at the mo, so back to the bubble wrap and olive oil!
I think mainly, the girls they're moulded on are porn stars or famous in some sexual capacity, else it loses it's marketing potential and guys might as well buy a normal fleshlight.
This would cause me no issues at all. I think it adds to the fantasy so i say go for it :).
I think, like has been said before, unless there's an actual history or connection with the person who's genitals they've been moulded on, there's no problem with this. And the chances of anyone having an actual history is fairly slim I would imagine.
To flip the question around, how would the girls feel about using a dildo/vibrator that was moulded on a particuar person?
It'd be intersting to know, with there being a 'Willy moulding kit' on here, if anyone has had it done and then left their 'willy donor'... if they still use the toy or if it got kicked out with the fella!