Forum Members with a vaginas, how do you like your OH to play with it? Do you like your inner and outer lips stroked and rubbed or is it all about the clitoris and the massaging of that little button of joy. When is the appropriate time to insert fingers and massage the inner walls of a vagina? Tips and Tricks required to ensure maximum pleasure.
Sounds like you just want someone to talk dirty to you ... this aint the place
With Everybody being different, DLJL, it would be up to you & your partner to work it out for yourselves, trying different things and at the same time telling each other if you like it or not ??
It comes (or cums) with experience, as I think most people would tell you. Have fun !!
There is no set of play steps. If there were it would get very boring. You just have to go with the flow so to speak.
If that were the case then the OH does it beautifully. Nope this was more about self improvement, so sorry you felt that way. No offence was intended.Deve&Debe wrote:
Sounds like you just want someone to talk dirty to you ... this aint the place
No offence taken but you just summed it up yourself , self improvement , only you can help with that , apologies if i caused you any offence , this was not the intention
Thank you, very insightful.Alicia4Ever wrote:
There is no "do this first" type asnswer to your question, as others have said it's finding out what your OH likes and how. But I can give you some things to do maybe some of them will be something you haven't thought of doing. When you say play with it do you mean just with fingers or for oral too?
Any how; experiment with how to touch her clit, some will like it to be rubbed downwards only some up and down, some just up, some find one side of their clit more sensitive than the other, some will lkie you to just go around it, some like it to be directly on it, some like it very softly, some a bit harder.
Some like just clit, some like to be fingered internally at the same time, some may like clit rubbing and labia massage at the same time, some may like a little anal massage at the same time, ( just remember which hand you have used to give the anal play.)
You can also mix up oral and finger play at the same time, even oral and toying. there's the area between the labia, and the uretheral opening, as well as the outer edge of the vaginal opening.
Internal fingering, try, a 2 finger ( more fingers or fewer what ever she likes best) rotation, or a side to side of the tips of your fingers on the edge to her pelvic bone ( the little spot of textured skin in the centre may be the most sensitive) or moving your fingers in a small circle, so that she feels the pressure moving around her vaginal opening. or go in on the centre then hook your fingers upwards and find that little grape like structure ( the uretheral sponge) and use a come hether type motion with your finger tips.
Try see if she likes pressure being applied to her tummy just a little higher up than her pelvic bone, combined with other stimulation, it sort of puts pressure on her bladder, which she may or may not like.