I don't know if I am being rather dramatic. OH and I are happy with little if no issues in the relationship but this being said I am going nuts at trying to get him to say how he feels. Yes, I know most men are hesitant to say how they feel and he shows it all the time.
I am craving to hear that he wants the same as me, I'm starting to fear he doesn't want kids or a wedding... we have been together three years and I have gotten used to the frienship with his ex, although I do get annoyed I have never met her I am not sure I want to.
What is annoying me is he won't say how he feels, partly as he can be stubborn when I start going on about it but the friendship with his ex fiancee is upsetting me and he just won't take notice. I don't expect the friendship to stop but I am upset that he talks to her more than he would me/before me about certain issues especially work and that hurts.
I understand they were together for 10 years or so but it is getting to the point, that because I have no rhyme or reason for them remaining friends, I am even starting to get upset about a silly gift she brought him back while on holiday.
I don't want to be "that girlfriend" but I don't know whether to assume I'm being silly hence he wont enter the discussion or there is something he is avoiding.
He is also going to a uni friends wedding, who I don't know, with his best mate and I assume his ex will be there. I am not wanting to go but I am hurt that he didn't even think it would bother me. It is more the fact he seems to hide me from his ex or hide her from me! Not sure which.
I am wondering if I am just being dramatic and territorial.
I do know he is the type of guy who if he didn't like it or want to do it, he wouldnt.
frustrated!!!