PrincessPink wrote:
The thought of the blindfold just made my stomach drop so I think that sight and trust must be a big part of it.
From your description, it sounds like it is. Do you have a mirror that you could position so that you can still see each other when on all fours?
I second the advice above to try othe lubes - I've also found Durex brand ones to go sticky and dry quickly. There are lots of useful reviews on the site here.