NbN and JJ
my problem is it is so long ago since we started I can't remember how we defined the limits and found what we liked and didnt. I remember lots of talking and sex but Im not sure if the talking was about sex. (alzheimers setting in I think). Talking is good but you cant beat practical experience, and listening to what she actually likes teaches you more than listening to what she thinks she likes, they arnt always the same I have found.
Somethings Mrs G likes she would never admit to, if she admitted she liked it then I wouldnt be breaking a taboo doing it, if that makes sense.
Wow, just logged on and saw all of your lovely messages! Thanks so, so much for taking the time to reply to me (I was embarrassed just asking for help but I feel much better because you're all so nice!).
I did bite the bullet (no, that's not a metaphor) and talked to him just to say that I loved him even more now than when we met (10 years together, 6 married) but that I wanted to make sure we were still having fun and for some reason, I was becoming more and more shy about sex and asking for what I wanted and wondered if he felt the same.
He isn't the world's greatest talker but did say he wanted more of this and that (basically more sex and especially blow jobs although we do this quite a lot already!), and when I told him about the things I wanted i.e. a bit more adventure, watch porn together, different places for sex, different kinds of foreplay - see what you've all created? - he was happy to go for it. He suggested using our sex toys more (haven't the heart to tell him I've worn out the battery on my Lick toy!) and I'm about to get the Orgasm Balm out tonight.
You're all genius and should be working for Love Honey or something! You're all so gorgeous thank you thank you thank you - I'm even thinking of creating a sex blog just for the two of us. I know it's daft but this was really weighing me down and I feel like a different person thanks to all of your help xxxxxx
i think you should definetly try dirty talk, people are more likely to follow when you are already in the mood and saying dirty things you want to do to eachother x
yeah get a bottle of nce wine
some nice bits too eat and play a board game and talk whilst playing
what you want to do the distraction works wonders
laurawalker wrote:
i think you should definetly try dirty talk, people are more likely to follow when you are already in the mood and saying dirty things you want to do to eachother x
Try everything, Mrs G doesnt like over the top dirty talk she feels uncomfortable, however she does say things like " do you want me on the bed or on my knees" which does it for me lol