How do we start with bondage?

That's a cracking idea. Thank you Knottydevil. Is there something online I could use? Where would I get such a quiz?

Seems like you’re all covered but just wanted to say have fun :D

Thanks ophelia-rose. Apprecite that. I talked with my wife about it last night as we got into bed. We talked about what I was ordering and what I am planning (whist keeping a few things secret). We are both a little scarred but very excited about it. A new adventure. I could tell my wife was turned on by our conversation becasue it soon turned into a 'cuddle'. (If you get my meaning...)

Hi funny bone, here are a couple of Lovehoney guides which may be useful for you:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/buyers-guide/bdsm-for-vanilla-lovers-bondage/

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/buyers-guide/keep-safe-bondage-techniques/

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/buyers-guide/beginners-guide-to-bondage/

Have fun! ![](upload://ez5kOkpKXRZOxjavAURYmQxVTau.gif)

Wow. Thank you Scorpius. I had no idea these existed on the LH site. Really informative.

Glad you’re both excited :D

Try searching BDSM checklists, BDSM contracts to get an idea.

Enjoy yourselves and stay safe. ;D