How long does it take your partner to cum?

I’m curious… on his own, it takes my hubby about 5 minutes. When we are having sex its about 15.

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It really depends if we’re just having a quickie or if we’ve planned a nice long evening of kinky fun :wink:

So could be 5 minutes … Could be 3 hours :face_with_hand_over_mouth:

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Don’t stress. On my own it can vary depending on mood, tiredness or whether I’m just cracking on or there’s extra stimulation (toys/porn etc).

With Mrs B its no different. At times I’ve been guilty of deliberately trying to make it last as long as possible and other times haven’t been able to last.

There’s no set time limit. It’s only something worth worrying about if nothing you’re doing gets a result. :wink:

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I thought it was me but it takes ages…like a blow job can be up to 2 hours…and sex the same but he takes ED medication.

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I’ve done it longer…I love doing it.

The final release is sooooooo worth it.

:sweat_drops::sweat_drops::drooling_face:

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Very much depends for me when I am playing.

If I have the time I can stay hard for perhaps an hour or so - or more - but if I just need to get the job done it’s about ten minutes from the get go.

Making love is different! Usually long enough for us both to have a good time, fortunately.

Everyone is different. As long as everyone is satisfied - in whatever way - all is good!

God yeah I love teasing and so glad it takes ages…love hearing the oh yeahs and moans of pleasure…it gets me so excited.

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How the hell do you make it last 3hours!!!

It really depends for Mrs Sen. Sometimes it can be as quick as a few minutes, othertimes it can take much longer, but any more than about 15 or so with dildo/vibrator and she probably won’t get there.

@Curious_Couple_19
When the kids get to bed at a reasonable time to allow us to spend that time.
We can spend ages playing, teasing, taking pictures, sometimes videos, playing with toys, some oral, more teasing. A couple of smoke and drink breaks in between, before the grand finale at around 2am.
By then you’re just a hot, sweaty, sticky mess :hot_face:
Oh Iove those nights :drooling_face:

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@Cupc8kes You are making a lot of us jealous LOL. Wish we could break the 1hr barrier, except we’re always wanting our sleep.
On a good night with foreplay til OH first orgasm, about 20mins. Then maybe another 10mins til I explode after hard banging deep penetration. Let the good times roll

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Now isn’t that the ultimate “piece of string” question!! It all depends on what we’re doing! My wife can orally make me cum in a couple of minutes or 10 to 15 minutes! I can make her orally cum in seconds so thats only allowed in short bursts. Sex is down to how much foreplay we have, vaginal for me can takes a long time and my Misses is 50/50 if she cums but anally I cum a lot faster and she always cums quicker and harder!

Needed to hear this. Mr John can take ages PIV - I get paranoid that I’m not tight enough. Has spurred me on to do my kegals.

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I can make my wife come in 1 or 2 minutes with a wand or I can keep her on edge for as long as she wants. She can do the same when she’s masturbating.
I don’t come from oral and I can hold on for a long time during PIV but anal tends to make me come quicker. If my wife wants to make me come she just has to make the right sounds and I’m doomed.

@Cupc8kes Right that’s it I’m well and truly jealous!!! I’m lucky if a sessions lasts 20min!!! That’s from start to finish!!!

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@Curious_Couple_19 sorry​:see_no_evil:
But I don’t get those sessions as often as I would like.

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Well I can only dream of nights like that lol

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Between 2 minutes and about 60+ minutes.
If he’s really excited and I’ve been teasing him with public nudity, or just talking dirty to him, I can make him cum with 2 minutes as soon as we get in the car. If we edge, and we are really into that at the moment, we can fuck on and off all afternoon while remaining fully stimulated.

On his own he can cum quite quickly too, especially if I’m naked and masturbating in front of him (which he loves).

Like lots have said, there are a lot of things that can make it happen quicker or longer. The Mrs and I are both in our 50s and have sex 3 or so times a week. When we get on a streak and have sex several days in a row, it can take me a real long time.

Also, alcohol really has an effect. If I have a drink or two, that can also make things take a long time. That said, and like others before have said, as long as you both are having a good time, it’s all good!

If I’m on my own I can cum quickly but normally during sex with the wife I want to make it last. Always make her cum though when we do have sex

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