How many people have you slept with?

Hi everyone.
I'm getting married soon and its occured to me that ive only slept with 3 men...!! (Age 29)
My hubby to be has lost count on his sexual partners and im really quite jealous! I wish I was more confident and put it out a bit more whilst I was younger!
.....xx

Honestly, one, my wife, it true.

I've been awake with a whole lot more than I've slept with and not that proud that I've lost count

One, my wife.

I hope that one day we'll have a regular sex life again. I also hope, one day, we may even try some adventuring with others.

BigEmma wrote:

Hi everyone.
I'm getting married soon and its occured to me that ive only slept with 3 men...!! (Age 29)
My hubby to be has lost count on his sexual partners and im really quite jealous! I wish I was more confident and put it out a bit more whilst I was younger!
.....xx

I have slept with 4 and I'm a 34 year old male...

I have slept with 2

0 too body insecure 😪😪😪

I think somewhere between 15 and 20

More than 100...probably closer to 200 if I'm honest. Not proud but utterly ashamed of my behaviour in my younger years.

RosyCheek wrote:

More than 100...probably closer to 200 if I'm honest. Not proud but utterly ashamed of my behaviour in my younger years.

Other than social, externally applied (and, ultimately, manufactured) pressure/judgement, is there really anything to be ashamed of? I mean, as long as you weren't irresponsible in terms of STIs and unwanted pregnancies, etc, what's the issue?

Just my opinion, of course. But I've always opposed the social encoding that paints male promiscuity as an acceptable, even desirable, form of masculinity... whilst female promiscuity is vilified as a shameful, undesirable form of femininity.

Just 4, no "1 night stands", closest was a short term relationship (2-3 months).

9... no one night stands and were all relationships. I'm almost 32

Just 1, and wouldn't change it if I was given a chance.

Well...what counts as "slept with"? Full PIV/ penetration only? I'm never sure what our numbers are because of the various definitions. If full sex, three for me and six for Mrs Orbit. Five and eight if you count various other things that lead to orgasms.

I've had five partners. Two long term relationships. The other ones I met during my only four months of being single between the relationships.

ShyAndChatty wrote:

0 too body insecure 😪😪😪

Every body style and type is sexy and beautiful and especially unique. I also get that you feel how you feel but surly some of the posting in here shows we are all different and like, admire and love different things. Also the number of porn sites list so many different categories including many different body types. I think one of the most sexy attributes is confidence.

I hope you find the courage to go out and enjoy as the water is quite lovely out there.

Just my wife,but as we`ve been together since we were 16 and 17 and are now in our mid 50`s i am quite proud of that!

Just one here too. Met the Mrs in the second week of university when we were 18... 20 years ago this month!

Just the 1, my husband. We have been together since we were 15 and 17...coming up to 11years now. He has also only slept with me. Its been fun exploring everything together

I've slept with one. I've had sexual encounters with a few others, but I'm glad I didn't sleep with any of them just to get my number up. I would have regretted it!