My wife’s hormones are all over the place, recently had test’s & her folate levels are really low, but that’s not going to help sex drive or the affection, we just keep going day to day as it’s the normal thing to be like this
As the husbands all we can do is support our wives & be there in the best we can as with my wife she feels weird & can’t explain why (her words)
The loss of everything is horrible for us men though, I feel like we are just friends at the moment, sex is an amazing thing to have with the person you love but affection is just as important, when there is nothing it’s really hard. I try to show her as much affection as I can, but it is just brushed off I know she loves me it’s just her hormone’s
For work a few times a week lately. In my personal life whenever my ex rears his head which has not been often the last few months. Beginning to think I need to look for someone who actually wants to see me.
Living away from my wife due to work. Only get bk every other weekend. We have a young son so even when I do get back we often sleep in separate rooms to give her a break from waking with him during the night. Very hard to get time together and when we do have sex it’s usually a quickie while he is having a nap. So so frustrating, don’t think it bothers her so much, she isn’t a very sexual person in general, as far as I know she doesn’t masterbaite whike we are apart. I have a very high sex drive and do it all the time.
Trust me it won’t last forever. When you have a little one they literally suck every bit of life out of you lol tiredness and not in the mood is completely normal but as they grow older and start sleeping more she will start to feel like a human again. Just give it time
Kids have had a huge impact on this but we are probably on the up now. We have a teenager who is now more often out with mates. Since COVID I also have working from home days which give more time with just the two of us. Full sex is probably at 4 times a week again now but if we include oral or some sexy fondling then daily or twice a day. She’ll always cum at least once, me not so often