How often are you having sex on average

Penetration maybe once a month or once every couple of months.

Touching, nipple play, bjs for him and mutual masturbation about once a week.

Intimacy, closeness, cuddles every day and whenever we have a moment to ourselves!

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Every half hour, twice a month

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Living away from my wife due to work. Only get bk every other weekend. We have a young son so even when I do get back we often sleep in separate rooms to give her a break from waking with him during the night. Very hard to get time together and when we do have sex it’s usually a quickie while he is having a nap. So so frustrating, don’t think it bothers her so much, she isn’t a very sexual person in general, as far as I know she doesn’t masterbaite whike we are apart. I have a very high sex drive and do it all the time.

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Every day can be a sexy day, whether it ends in sex or not. Though more is always nice.

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Trust me it won’t last forever. When you have a little one they literally suck every bit of life out of you lol tiredness and not in the mood is completely normal but as they grow older and start sleeping more she will start to feel like a human again. Just give it time :blush:

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Kids have had a huge impact on this but we are probably on the up now. We have a teenager who is now more often out with mates. Since COVID I also have working from home days which give more time with just the two of us. Full sex is probably at 4 times a week again now but if we include oral or some sexy fondling then daily or twice a day. She’ll always cum at least once, me not so often

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Would be in the relegation zone to be honest would love to move up the table

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Normally couple of times a week but it has slowed down a bit due to work and having just gotten a puppy

About once a week, I would love more but the OH has a far lower sex drive than me

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A couple of times on working days and maybe a solo session in the shower but we go crazy at weekends. Our record was six times and in the summer moths we do occasionally try to beat our personal best.

Just curious???

Until a recent evening it’s been months since penetrative sex, which although has been tough, I do enjoy a good fumble, I do enjoy pleasing the OH.

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July 2025

Not enough :cry:. Probably average once a week. Maybe twice in 3 weeks.

Normally 2-3 times per week.

Ya I went fairly barren with perimenopause but I can feel myself being horny now most of the time and I think my poor husband is a bit taken aback to be honest. He said it kinda freaked him that I went from nothing to wanting it so much.

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