I know I'm becoming a nuisance but

Surely you can google and find the Genre you are looking for?

It's not just about the chat though. I'd hate it too if the forum became 'less safe' because people could disturb me with private requests or hook-up attempts of any kind... I'd instantly get out of here! But having more direct feedback from members (like when they mention you) or from threads (like when someone quotes you or you commented on it and would like to see others' comments too afterwards) would make the general experience so much easier and more involving... threads do die just because people forget to go back to them and miss out on new replys. A notification function of some sort would make the mod's life easier too, as I think it would help diminish the number or multiple threads opening on the same subject. Sorry to be in the minority here.

Couple looking to spice things up wrote:

Hi I was me who linked you but after checking that's members profile they have only posted 7 times, so they obviously are not a frequent forumer or a silent one anyways. I know you did a thread asking but I'd guess the user hasn't seen it. I don't think LH intend to introduce chat for several reason which poor Jess has had to state a few times. I personally like the openness of this forum and would be against a chat option.

Sorry my friend but as mentioned above Google is probably your best bet.

Sum Sub wrote:

Personally I resent being called a perv; you may see yourself as one, but don't assume that others are just because of a common interest.

+1 πŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌ

The notification option is something that could be useful to the forum but everything else is great. 

Sorry about the "perv" label Sum Sub. I was, as we say in the states, kidding.

Post to Lovehoney - Leanne: NONE of the changes I am talking about would make ANY communications between individuals private. All communication between any 2 individuals would be public. All would still be visible to all and it would be easy then to join the conversation with those people where everyone can see that conversation between all people joining it.

By the way, I'm assuming that it is only our nicknames (for me "Ready to Play") that come up when you Google and not my actual name that you use for my orders. (If you say no that if you Google my ACTUAL name my comments come up then I am so out of here!

Yeah, it's only your screen name that shows up. Why would they reveal your full name?

Stuburns wrote:

Surely you can google and find the Genre you are looking for?

No unfortunately Google has not worked for me mostly because I don't even know how to describe what I'm looking at. Maybe you can help (I do think i'm going to start a general thread to see if anyone else has some ideas). Check out the Shades of Blue picture. If you had to give that kind of genre of art a name what would you call it?

I don't know - just checking to make sure. In my job (public education in the States) the risk to my career could be devastating.

Always better to be safe :) i did try and have a look on Google for the image you were after but it just came up with pornographic anime. Hope you have some more luck x

Thanks.

Hey I don't want to give the impression of being negative on the forum. I think it's a great place.

It comes as close to my ideal of any place I've ever found online.

I'm just thinking about it and thinking that if it had these few improvements it wouldn't be close to my ideal it would be my ideal.

Thanks again.

Ready to Play wrote:

Hey I don't want to give the impression of being negative on the forum. I think it's a great place.

It comes as close to my ideal of any place I've ever found online.

I'm just thinking about it and thinking that if it had these few improvements it wouldn't be close to my ideal it would be my ideal.

+1 to that. :)