I'm similiar in that I changed my medications last year and holy cow my sex drive went through the roof! For a 22/23 year old at the start of last year mine was through the floor until I came off of contraceptives and I became insaitable! I only invested in my first toys recently, until then I'd been making do with with my hands (don't knock the hands, they can still be good!)
How you find pleasure is entirely dependent on you - for me it was a case of I knew I wanted something internal, but not intimidating as I'm generally not a big fan of penetration. And I knew I'd need lube for that. And lots of it. But maybe some lube which adds some sensation would be good? Something that tingles or warms up in conjunction with clitoral play might satisfy you, or it might just be a good warm up before the 'main event' and something internal.
As for what toys might work, might be worth looking at the Gift Sets? There seem to be some with a bit of everything there depending on what you think you might like. :) There's also nothing stopping you writing a list of what you like astetically and whittling down a list of potentials from that. Use the wishlist feature! (for me, my decision came down to three things, quiet, not realistic, not pink and I worked from that!)
I hope you find something that works for you! But whatever you choose, even if for now that's your hands, lube up and have fun exploring!