Ok, 12 years married and absolutely in love with each other, and have a solid relationship. Sex is pretty much one way, as i have just explained in a previous post, but that's something we need to work on.
However, she has agreed to try and spice things up and try a few new things, but she can be a little reserved? Obviously i don't want to push it, but normally with a little light encouragement she's game and ends up enjoying herself immensly.
But it's all down to me 100% to come up with new stuff - and frankly i'm fast running out of ideas!
We've tried:
Naughty Truth or Dare - I've come up with a vast amount of content, but i've now run dry.
Date nights - Nice meals and walks, with a naughty romp in our car, where we nearly caught, which proved highly funny. Wife wearing no knickers, which we enjoyed. But open restaurant so nothing further, as too exposed.
Naturist beach and spa - Both enjoyed this, but obviously no hanky panky in public.
Anal - but ended quickly, even after a very long build up. I'm extremely well endowed, I wouldn't want that up me either lol
Peeing - I have a slight fetish where i like to watch a woman pee, we've tried it, but she can't go whilst under pressure of being watched. Again i don't want to push it, and feel thats run its course?
Things like sex outside, sexy underwear, toys, and just general couples stuff, porn etc.
Not interested in: Bondage, pain, swinging (I fancy a bit of voyeurism, but she's defo not interested) dressing up/role play. **edited by moderator**
So ides if possible folks? - Adventurous ideas, not cosmopolitan, blindfolds, food, massage by candlelight kinda stuff. Been there done that x 1 million.
Or have we done it all?