hello guys and and girls..
i am a 31 year old happily married woman..looking to spice things up abit proble is hubby always finishes quite quickly any ideas to help him last longer ive tried the stay gel which was good but anything else we could try
More prolonged foreplay...?
Have you tried a cock ring. I'm lucky as I can switch off as such unless she really makes her carnal sex face.....but if not I always spend an inordinate time on foreplay on her then oral. I then either have hand play or enter her dependending on how I feel so she's always satisfied. She prefers oral to penetration.
It depends what you are trying to prolong. If you are looking for longer penetrative sex, you could consider a hollow strap on or a penis extender which you could then remove the toy when you are ready for normal penetration. This would reduce the sensation for him while wearing the toy/extender and therefore prolong the session for you.
Condoms may also help as you can get delay ones and reasonably thick ones. You could also look for ribbed/dotted ones for extra stimulation for you.
More regular sex/masturbation can sometimes help too. If he doesn't orgasm a lot (and the definition of a lot will vary from person to person), the orgasm can come quite hard and fast (no pun intended), almost like it has been building up waiting to be released.
Otherwise, sex doesn't have to stop just because he has orgasmed. There is no reason why he couldn't continue to pleasure you either with his hands or mouth or with a toy.
If the issue is more about wanting longer sessions overall (rather than him orgasming before you), then simply slow everything down. Start clothed and make out, slowly removing clothing. Make it your mission to kiss or touch every part of each other. Give massages. Have a bath or shower together first (or after)
Is he able to go multiple times during one session?
Another option would be akin to endurance training, tie him up so he can't stop you. You then repeatedly take him to the edge using mouth/hands/boobs/pussy (whatever floats your/his boat) but stopping and letting it subside before starting again.
(May or not be a fantasy of mine 😉)
Penis extension best option I’ve found or more regular sex. The worst situation is infrequent sex and preceded by lots of foreplay and watching porn together to get her going. By the time she’s warmed up I can be ready to pop, very frustrating waiting weeks for activity and then it’s over in minutes. In that scenario the extenders can help. Hope this is useful.
Like others have said, get him a fleshlite. The longer you keep going until climaxing the longer he will be able to last in the future.
You could try 'China Brush'. It should be applied to the penis approximately two hours before sexual activity. Be careful not to apply too much. Starts with a burning sensation immediately after application but this wears off after a while. Suggest that you read the reviews before purchase. Good luck!