Improving wetness without lube

Sex Tips & Talk
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Hello again,

This is prompted by the recent post about (not) faking multiple orgasms and vaginal lubrication. Basically, even though I am only 28 (and no kids if that makes a shred of difference, no offence to any mums I just don't know!), I don't seem to be able to get anywhere near as wet as I used to. Maybe it's because I'm not on the pill anymore but I'm not sure if that's really got anything to do with it? I don't have any othe gynae probs and I am comfortable day to day. It would just be nice to get really dripping wet for someone! I use lubes and that's OK, but would just like to be naturally juicier if possible :-P

Any ideas??

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I don't get super duper dripping wet unless I am super duper horny. The kind of horny that is achieved through lots and lots of foreplay, teasing, dirty thoughts and all that jazz. During a "regular" session I just get averagely wet (I think I just made up a word!) I have the mirina coil fitted and I cant say I noticed any difference in my wetness before and after having it but everyones bodies works differently.

Don't be disheartened. I personally think some women are naturally wetter than others in the same way that some men can squirt loads of cum and others not so much. I guess keeping really hydrated, eating a healthy balance of foods and all that jazz will also help (I know it helps to be fully hydrated if I want to experience gushing orgasms)

Other than that, I don't know x

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Fluffbags you are so awesome, can always rely on you for a bit of sensible feedback! x

Just been doing some research and I think a lot of it is down to **stress**... I am an anxious little creature I think! Deffo going to drink more water and try eating some estrogenic foods like flax.

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I am not joking or being sleazy but NOTHING I can do gets Mrs G as wet as she is when she has given me a BJ...also as you get older (and we are both pretty old) take your time and build up to it find out what gets you in the mood and relax about it.

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Gunther I am the same as your Mrs. Blowjobs have that effect on me too. Its all about finding what gets your juices flowing.

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Fluffbags wrote:

Its all about finding what gets your juices flowing.

Well said. External Image

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I also tend to only get really wet after giving blow job, unfortunately my new fella doesn't seem to want me to give him one!

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gunther wrote:

I am not joking or being sleazy but NOTHING I can do gets Mrs G as wet as she is when she has given me a BJ...also as you get older (and we are both pretty old) take your time and build up to it find out what gets you in the mood and relax about it.

Fluffbags wrote:

I don't get super duper dripping wet unless I am super duper horny.

That is so true the hornier I am the wetter I get

Can't beat a BJ hearing your man moan makes me horny as hell

Try not to stress how wet you are lay back and enjoy it x

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i don't get very wet no matter what we do. I also get sore very easily, so we always use lube.

It's not a lack of foreplay or feeling horny. The wetness i get just doesn't seem to last.

Lube does the job perfectly

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I find that simply going down on my wife cures this issue AND we both enjoy ourselves.

LV

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I changed drastically after going on the pill.
Used to get wet at the drop of a hat even just during the day being around my partner made my wet. Now i need lot of foreplay and even then it doesn't always last that long. Again its not lack of foreplay or that im not horny it just doesn't happen :(
We've got used to using lube quite regularly now.

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Lou22 wrote:


Used to get wet at the drop of a hat

I still do!

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Fluffbags wrote:

Gunther I am the same as your Mrs. Blowjobs have that effect on me too. Its all about finding what gets your juices flowing.

Thanks for confirming I was thinking that for ladies who arnt keen it sounds like a wind up

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Stimulating deep within the G-spot around the cervix (the a-spot area) can help with encouraging the body to produce lubricant.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anterior_fornix_erogenous_zone

I'd recommend a thin tou a bit like this:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9239

Also, I find the more regular I do kegels, the wetter I am. Whereas when I've gone for awhile without doing any, I'm never as wet when I make sure I do some once a day, even if they aren't done right before foreplay and sex.

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Brilliant Nymphomaniac! Especially like the advice from Dr. Chua Chee Ann about stimulating the A spot for 10 minutes a day...

This furthers my interest in working on ejaculation, which obviously given the nature of my original post could be a very long process or perhaps impossible for me personally to achieve, but hey-ho, it'll be fun trying!

Thanks all!

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I find getting really horny helps and by that. I mean stimulation over a long period of time. A quick fondle. The certain look from my other half. If dirty talk is your thing being whispered what he wants to do in your ear. Perhaps porn if thats your thing. If this wind up happens for a long period of time, it normally has a huge effect on me.

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I don't know if porn is my thing, I might have to have another go. Previously I have found it a bit silly and a bit sad... but tastes do change and there might be a different style I like out there. x

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If porn isn't your thing, what about erotic fiction? x

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Lou22 I'm exactly the same I use to get really wet when I was on the pill and before but now I've been off the pill for over a year now I don't get very wet at all, and also like you I've just got use to using the lube :/ do miss not having my juices flowing.