Me personally, I was incredibly shy when I was young, and my fantasies were quite kinky. But if anything, as I've aged and gained experience and confidence, my fantasies have evolved and got even filthier. I'm not even slightly shy any more, but it seems my style is to push my own boundaries no matter how open I am.
You wrote exactly how I am/was. I was shy but very kinky feelings and thoughts. Now it's evolved to not just kinky but some dirty thinking and practices.
Well maybe not. Never been classed as quiet. I've always had a huge sex drive and with it comes a very kinky side. I'm fascinated by sex and in reading studying about it I've found that my kinks are very numerous.
I think your right it is the quiet ones as people think butter wouldnt melt with me. In reality I am quite kinky and seem to be getting kinkier as I get older.
I am in my late sixties and I'm quiet..................but we've had a threesome and I have a girlfriend. So yes I agree the quiet ones can be the worse! Or the best? XX
You're right as in my reply further up, and yes very shy generally far more open once I've had a glass of wine though only to my wife, but even then, later feel embarrassed a bit of what I've said or asked.