I have the lovehoney basics jiggle balls 56g, had them since the beginning of July and used them.off an on since then ..hours at a time with no problems..last month saw the two for twenty-five pounds on jiggle and kegel balls and bought the FSOG delicious pleasure 64g jiggle balls...I have tried them a few times..and they just seem soo big...even lubed up and me all ready for them I can't seem to get them fully in and when I do manage it . They start to come straight back out...I don't think it's the weight at all..I manage the 54g ones fine..I think they are too big and the wrong shape for me...has anyone else found that or are they too heavy for me? I have had three children but my muscles are not weak down there...any help greatly appreciated xx
I haven't tried the Delicious Pleasures balls myself, but looking at the measurements, they do seem pretty girthy at a 4.65" circumference VS the 4.25" circumference of the basics jiggle balls. Usually, bigger balls are easier to hold in since it requires less effort for your muscles to hold them in, but in your case, I'm guessing that due to the size of the balls, you haven't really been able to position them well, which is why they tend to slip out. I think it would help to push them further in when you first wear them so that the second ball is some distance from your opening.
The position which you're in when wearing the balls can help as well. I, too, struggle with my largest set of balls (the Swoon ones - 4.75" circumference), and find it easiest to insert them when I'm squatting. When I don't make an effort to ensure that I've got a good grip on them before standing up, they do tend to slip out, so I think you're facing a similar problem. It might help to push them a little further so that the retrieval cord goes in just a little. I find that clenching my muscles around them before standing up and going about my business kind of helps to position them well too.
If it doesn't work out, you might want to exchange them for a smaller pair. You could consider these:
Fifty Shades Beyond Aroused
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30892
Lelo Luna Noir
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26820
I personally own the Beyond Aroused balls and love them. They're a good investment, since you can customize and increase the weight as you grow stronger. They don't jiggle though.
The Noir beads are pretty loved and I hope to own them myself some day. They are a little heavier (72g) but I think they could work for you since you have no issues at all with your 56g pair.
I hope this helps! c:
The 50 shades ones might possibly just not be the right ones for you by the sounds, they are a very unique shape. One of the many reasons we have our one year returns policy! :)
I would definitely consider these ones (they are currently the deal of the week too!!) Which are amazing, alterable weights, not too awkward of a shape and very nice and smooth to use - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30892
Otherwise a suitable alternative I would believe may be these ones too, a nice step up and a similar shape to the Basics too- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25361
I hope this helps a little!
Thank you both so much...I will get the FSOG beyond aroused set today ..and send the others back. Thanks very much xx
Hi mummymermaid do not forget what Paige said the FSoG beyond aroused balls are the deal ot the week when you spend £25 so you can buy some other bits and get the balls you want cheaper than actually buying them.
Thank you very much I have just ordered and got the set on the deal of week .sorting out returns on my other set later..thanks all xx
I love love love love the FSOG kegel ball set you suggested! It's perfect for me...thank you xx