It definitely does lollipop! My OH never actually asked about it, I think it was me that led the progression from strip clubs, jokily saying things like "shall we f*** her?" And now it's something we may actually do.
It's fun, especially when he gets to watch. Worth a try :)
It has to be perfect for us though. And I have bouts of paranoia and jealousy so were both worried I may nit like it as much as I think, but I weren't bad having lap dances at strip club and haven't been for a while so were looking for girls, we're super fussy though
Why don't you look into possibly hiring an escort? Lots of adultwork to pick from, it then takes away that jealousy factor.
But tbh to enter into a threesome, you both need to be 100% confident with eachother and the relationship. The littlest bit of doubt could possibly send the relationship spiraling
It definitely does lollipop! My OH never actually asked about it, I think it was me that led the progression from strip clubs, jokily saying things like "shall we f*** her?" And now it's something we may actually do.
It's fun, especially when he gets to watch. Worth a try :)
It has to be perfect for us though. And I have bouts of paranoia and jealousy so were both worried I may nit like it as much as I think, but I weren't bad having lap dances at strip club and haven't been for a while so were looking for girls, we're super fussy though
Lol, I'm in almost exactly the same position as you, Y&F.
The first time I watched my partner getting a lapdance I felt slightly like crying, but since that I've been pretty alright with it and I think I'd be fine with a threesome if ever we manage to find someone who meets mine and my partner's criteria. Not holding my breath though - both me and him are far too fussy.
It definitely does lollipop! My OH never actually asked about it, I think it was me that led the progression from strip clubs, jokily saying things like "shall we f*** her?" And now it's something we may actually do.
It's fun, especially when he gets to watch. Worth a try :)
It has to be perfect for us though. And I have bouts of paranoia and jealousy so were both worried I may nit like it as much as I think, but I weren't bad having lap dances at strip club and haven't been for a while so were looking for girls, we're super fussy though
Why don't you look into possibly hiring an escort? Lots of adultwork to pick from, it then takes away that jealousy factor.
But tbh to enter into a threesome, you both need to be 100% confident with eachother and the relationship. The littlest bit of doubt could possibly send the relationship spiraling
I think that's probably the way well go, we're an incredibly strong couple and deal with our problems properly but it's a big risk to take and you gear of it going wrong too often
My boyfriend told me he's bi within the first week of even knowing each other. I dont really see why it would or should bother me, if he was gonna cheat would it really matter what gender the person is? My friends all asked me if it was weird being with a bi guy but really its no different (on that level) to any other relationship.
I tell partners very early on, as someone who will react badly to that isn't someone I want to be with. The threesome question is really annoying though (and I say this as someone who has had them in the past and with no objection to having them in the future, but there's a time and a place to ask for things like that!), as it does feel rather as though I've become a fantasy-fulfilment object in their eyes.
My wife told me after about twelve years together.
I was delighted.
She has never been with a woman beyond a snog, and will now probably never be with one, but she seems pretty unfussed by that. She has FF fantasies and we sometimes watch FF porn together. Both make our naughty time together seem a little naughtier and I am perfectly happy with that.
There is a little part of me that regrets she'll never get to try it out - even I've tried being with a man and I know that it's not really for me - but the way most of me looks at it is that I have committed myself to her and have no desire or intention to sleep with other women. She's in the same position.
My wife didn't come out so much as an awaking/dscovery after many years of marriage when she realised she was enjoying girl/girl porn A LOT so a slightly different perspective. It took several years after that before we acted on it, and we decided on the escort route, she/we are not looking for any romantic connection with a 3rd, just NSA fun, in fact that's ruled out completely as that would hurt our relationship. It's win/win for me as I find it incredibly hot that she enjoys women and she finds it hot that i join in. She's pretty amazing and not jealous at all, but first time we were very nervous, and we agreed that either could back out at any moment with no blame or repurcusssions, thankfully we both enjoyed it,
Being almost exclusively lesbian and very open about it, it was more of a shock to my OH- and everyone else we knew- when I was into him!
So there was never any telling, just the ''are you sure this is right?'' conversation.
We also had the ''I am going to want to sleep with women still'' conversation about three days in. Makes things hella easier having got it over with and set guidelines straight up.