On, please. Indirect is best, then candles. I like to see what I’m doing, for the girl’s benefit.
My ex wife preferred the lights off. Very frustrating.
Off. OH would have dimmed.
I used to like dimmed, but lately has been ON, with lots of light , honestly I think I used to only like dimmed because to self awareness…
I’m a lights on fan as I want to see it all and not miss anything, I’m extremely visual when it cums to sex. Wife probably prefers dimmed lights but is usually good with them on. I also enjoy lights off but all blinds open for natural light from outside. 
Lights on love the full visual of seeing my wife’s amazing body when we have sex.
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Lights on. We used to fumble around in the dark but now l wouldn’t want to miss out on seeing everything that’s happening to me and her!
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Mood lighting all the way. We have a low-light desk lamp and purple LEDs behind the headboard most nights, red for Thursday nights 
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Either lights on or sometimes we will just have the TV on but not playing anything just for some low lighting.
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On, definitely. Although, this post got me realising that we nearly always have sex when it’s light, either in the morning or afternoon. He works from home a lot, so when the kids are out, we have lunch time sex.
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I pref dim lighting like the tv on so can still see what doing .
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This!!! 
Dimmed
Dimmed.
We ask Alexa to set the bedroom light to 10% and that gives us a lovely light level.
Al’s OH writing this. Most of the time the lights are on - I want to see him hard. If we fuck in the middle of the night, then it’s lights off and it’s a slow loving fuck. I love seeing him push his penis in me - him on top. Or I want to see him while I suck.
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Dimmed … ideal lighting for the right atmosphere. Enough to be able to see and get visually turned on but not so much it kills the mood
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Yeah usually dimmed or off in daytime and curtains let plenty of light in the room
There needs to be enough light to see. I find it really difficult to have sex when it’s too dark, I need the visual stimulation
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The OH says lights off, she doesn’t like to see me enjoying myself 
Lights on but dimmed. A small lamp is ideal. We added a large mirror to our bedroom a while back and I don’t mind taking a peek at what’s occuring !
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