I need a bit of advice, if we was to change positions everytime he felt like he was gonna cum would that help? We've tried it before and he doesn't last any longer, last night i suggested getting a little something to help him out a bit, as i'm getting more and more frustrated, can anyone give me any tips to make him last longer or sugest any products that help him not cum as quick or at least keep him hard please. i dont know what to do anymore, im thinking of just giving up
Have you tried the desensitising creams hun?? we tried one and It defo worked for a while. also cock ring are suppose to help hold it off for a while,
I dont think changing possitions will work tbh and if it did its probably just the general withdrawing and moving about that is calming him down, so maybe if he pulls out for a while and pleasures you for a bit before continuing.
Ive just seen Mini-Salad has reviewed these and given them a 5 star. even if you generally dont use condoms they may help now and again x
We've recently tried a rock hard power delay cream as sometimes it would be nice to go for a full porn* length session, unfortunately it should be renamed to mildly soft power delay cream. The stuff was terrible, yes it reduced feeling but to the point where it wasn't any good at all and hence hard to stay interested despite my other half breaking out her best moves. We also had another problem, despite leaving it long enough to soak in we had some transfer so she complained that it wasn't going to do anything for her anyway!
An absolute fail in our minds. We'll give it a second shot just to make sure but i'm not holding out much hope. Its also worth noting that it was very expensive and the active ingredient, in this case Benzocaine is also used in other creams and the like availbe from LH. If you do intend to buy something there's something with all of the Anal Eaze products in a bright green tub (out of stock atm) that might be a more financially sound investment.
Hope this helps.
thanks for all your help, i was wondering do any of the pills work? ive seen mixed reviews about them all so not sure what to do
i like the idea of them condoms but using them seems to take away some of the sensation for me anyway, and im worried that the creams will just make us go numb and then we wont feel anything then thats why im curious about the pills, liking the reviews though xx
purplejools wrote:
u mean like viagra type pills mel??
something along them lines yeah, even if he comes quickly then he still can go on for more
at the min he's lasting no more than 10 mins and thats with loads of foreplay/no foreplay/toys/porn/me dressing up thats why im at my wits end
sexymel88 wrote:
purplejools wrote:
u mean like viagra type pills mel??
something along them lines yeah, even if he comes quickly then he still can go on for more
at the min he's lasting no more than 10 mins and thats with loads of foreplay/no foreplay/toys/porn/me dressing up thats why im at my wits end
Sounds like you are just TOO DAMN HOT sexymel!
i wish it was that, i wouldnt be complaining if that was the case lol, im trying everything i can but its just getting us both down
sexymel88 wrote:
studley wrote:
studley do these work?
i don't know but for £2.29 mite be worth a try, one of the reveiws look good, i think S.C and naughty boy have tried them..
i will try them i just wondered if they're any good in your opinion thats all, ta though
Ive got some in the drawer for a rainy day but not yet tried them hun. if you decide to try them I would suggest these ones, http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7653 they are 300mg rather then 150mg individually they are £3.50 from LH I just linked the bigger pack so you could see the reviews. these are the ones I have xxxxxxx
thanks for that hun. i will order them now, fingers crossed, still keep your suggestions coming though, im willing to try anything
mel, I think the best thing for this IMO would be to make him cum with a BJ or something, then let him attend to you for long enough to be re-interested. After this I reckon he'll last longer. If not then rinse and repeat
Yep, there's a lot of too-good-to-be-true in the advertising for some of these "little blue pills".
But judging from the reviews, Golden Root seems to work for many people.
The 10 Pack of Golden Root has 3 positive reviews, which is nice, but the surprising thing is that it seems to women reviewing how happy it's made them after giving their fellas a lift!
thats the thing though, onces he's cum thats it, its hours before he can go again and he doesnt last any longer, ive ordered a box of one just to try but we have to be careful of the ingredients in it but fingers crossed it will be a short term solution to our problem
I think I may have posted about this subject before anyway ...Pills and potions have their use however its important to understand the male sexual responce , a man is built to come asap so what is needed is for the man to be as relaxed as possible and reach a plateau of arousal when he does he can last as long as he likes this is done by including lots of foreplay relaxing him getting him to his sexual plateau .
So lots of massage/oral/cuddles/kissing etc for both of you all this takes the centre of of attention away from plain fucking and its how a man gets to his plateau of arousal in fact when its done right he will find it a little difficult to come afer hours of play .
Good luck