Well I've seen it three times ones a man just got off he's bike and started going it when I was walking past, another time was when I was little in a park with my nan, and the other time was not to long ago, some guy was doing it in a corner at night when I walked past with a few friends. So it was where anyone could see even little kids.
Definitely not I hate the idea, a fantasy. yes reality no.
I like the idea of it but in reality I'd be worried about people seeing, particularly those like children and the elderly. I'd rather keep it a fantasy.
I have a villa in Majorca and always masterbate before the pool guy from my terrace.... He approves...I love it.... So do half his employees...
I have a villa in Majorca and always masterbate before the pool guy from my terrace.... He approves...I love it.... So do half his employees...
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I was walking from the station one day just about 4pm and there was a guy jerking off as he heard me approaching, never seen someone run so quick, when he realised it wasn't a girl/woman but a larger than him guy, who was pissed off with the incident!.
There is a time and place for doing things in public with the chance of being caught but this sort of thing is normally viewed as indecent exposure and the local cops generally look for conviction.
Don't ever subject anyone else to it.
I once witnessed a man wanking, and it was a very frightening and unpleasant experience. I was an adult, but it left me very shaken.
Outdoors is lovley, but not in public view.
Wasn't me was it spoonio? I don't think naturist pics should be viewed in the same light as an openly sexual act. There's also a double standard issue too I propose. I've seen really artistic erotic pics of women, fully naked in disused/derelict buildings. I thought once I'd love to do that - but if a man is seen naked outdoors, it's deemed inappropriate or indecent. I'd suggest find a location that is hard to stumble upon and do it mid-week. Most people should be at work or kids at school.
Actually I quite like the corn field scenario - a bit like the "Gladiator sequence" (Russel Crowe film) - only wearing substantially less ;-) Of course a little photoshop would be beneficial too in my case
If I saw any sexual act in public I would feel the same way...shaken up. The only difference is that if you happen upon a couple having sex, it is less scary than a lone guy wanking. I am sure guys would understand why that is (From a female perspective) I would be afraid of what he intended to do next (I understand that 99% of the time the answer is "nothing" and he just gets his kicks from exposing himself...but its a natural reaction to suddenly feel afraid in that situation) Whereas seeing a couple, it is less of a threat?
Both are still equally unappealing. I don't wanna see either thanks lol. Also quietguy: I would feel just as weird if I happened upon a naked woman wanking as I would a man. Maybe not as frightened, but still equally as freaked out tbh. As for the erotica. I love erotic shots of males and females that have been taken outdoors (I dont mean the porno versions of public exposure but gorgeous erotic photography of both sexes but if I walked upon a situation where I saw a man naked in public, compared to a woman, i would be equally embarrassed or uncomfortable. I don't think it is any more exceptable to be naked in public because your a woman. I would say its the other way around.....it is socially acceptable for men to wander around topless for example. Any exposure of genatalia is equally disturbing when you didn't ask to see it and it was kins thrust on to you surprisingly.
I think what you may be suggesting is that if a man wandered across a woman masturbating, the reaction would more often be "Hot" (Not always but some men would love that?) Maybe. I think this boils down to the perceived threat of the situation. Men in general, can over power a woman. Women are less of a physical threat to men. So maybe they can enjoy the situation? I dunno but I just asked the two guys I live with and both said if they saw a woman wanking in public they would ignore it and feel awkward too. So ...yeh lol
Fluffbags wrote:
so quietguy: I would feel just as weird if I happened upon a naked woman wanking as I would a man. Maybe not as frightened, but still equally as freaked out tbh. As for the erotica. I love erotic shots of males and females that have been taken outdoors (I dont mean the porno versions of public exposure but gorgeous erotic photography of both sexes but if I walked upon a situation where I saw a man naked in public, compared to a woman, i would be equally embarrassed or uncomfortable. I don't think it is any more exceptable to be naked in public because your a woman. I would say its the other way around.....it is socially acceptable for men to wander around topless for example. Any exposure of genatalia is equally disturbing when you didn't ask to see it and it was kins thrust on to you surprisingly.
I didn't even mention wanking in public - not quite sure why you quoted me on that point?
Wouldn't do it myself, i think even in a remote place id feel vunerable doing it and certainly wouldn't in a public place. I think people have a right to go about their day without having to worry about coming across people wanking.
I do enjoy sex outdoors but we always make sure we're far away from civilization lol. Have absolutely no desire to be caught and wouldn't want to inflict that on anybody unsuspecting either.
MissPeaches wrote:
middle of tesco might be dodgy lol
GymJunki3 wrote:
And difficult (frozen foods section) where it's a bit cold...
No clubcard points either :)
MissPeaches wrote:
lol You never know you might get tripple points
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quietguy wrote:
Fluffbags wrote:
so quietguy: I would feel just as weird if I happened upon a naked woman wanking as I would a man. Maybe not as frightened, but still equally as freaked out tbh. As for the erotica. I love erotic shots of males and females that have been taken outdoors (I dont mean the porno versions of public exposure but gorgeous erotic photography of both sexes but if I walked upon a situation where I saw a man naked in public, compared to a woman, i would be equally embarrassed or uncomfortable. I don't think it is any more exceptable to be naked in public because your a woman. I would say its the other way around.....it is socially acceptable for men to wander around topless for example. Any exposure of genatalia is equally disturbing when you didn't ask to see it and it was kins thrust on to you surprisingly.
I didn't even mention wanking in public - not quite sure why you quoted me on that point?
I wasn't quoting you. Just saying that in reference to your post about it being more acceptable to be naked for women, that I would personally feel just as weird wether I saw a man or a woman naked or wanking....either or, and that for me, it it not more acceptable x The wanking part just came into my train of thought as it was what the thread was initially about. Sorry for the confusion x
Years ago I was catching a train from bristol temple meads train station and it was very busy. Some bloke must have been late 40s had some woman off a similair age against a wall. Her jeans was undone and his hand was down there obviously rubbing her. Everyone was walking past looking and they were oblivious to us all. I remember thinking ew. Had she been younger and attractive it might off stirred my loins but seeing them had the opposite effect.
its amazing what you can see on a train platform lol.
Yeah Id agree with Fluffbags and Lollipop that if you DO do it in public make sure that no-one else is going to be forced to see you. In other words make sure its private or that you can hide what you are doing if someone does accidently turn up to the place. No-one wants their fun ruining someone elses day.
Sex is different from masturbation because a couple is generally less threatening than a lone male. I think the same applies to both though if its public but you expect a reasonable amount of privacy then its ok. Quiet country track at night with nobody around go for it. Bus stop on a Saturday afternoon probably best left till you get home.
love risky sex but tommy tanking in a public open place i think is a bit weird for sure
i remember once me an a couple of mates were leaving a pub at closing time on a sunday . we'd stayed late for a cheeky couple of extra drinks , and went over the road to the car park . we were fannying around for ages trying to get into the car much to sober driver friends distain , when all of a sudden she screamed GET IN AN LOCK THE FU**ING DOORS - so we did an this dude was legging it to the car in a wierd run/waddle , as his trews were about his ankles , one hand over his face and the other one on his cock . then he started slapping his meat at the window on the drivers side while banging his other hand on top of the car .. fecking car wouldnt start , for what seemed like aeons but must have been less than a minute an we sped off . freaky as balls .
i completely agree, this is too vague.
using sex toys is classed as masturbation and there are so many designed to be worn discreatly in public.
it all depends on the when, where and how.
theMightyBum wrote:
Holly Love wrote:
Sex is different from masturbation because a couple is generally less threatening than a lone male.
Why?
If two people decided to attack you, they would stand a better chance of overpowering you than one person.
Ye of course it could happen but you just don't get the impression that a couple would, as they're there together and more interested in each other it's just not as threatening.
I realise that if someone was caught masturbating chances are they would run of but if i was by myself and came across a man doing that i would be scared. I wouldn't be logically thinking 'oh he'll be more worried than me' i'd be thinking there's someone who's probably stronger than me who's half naked and horny and i'd be wondering which way i should run.