We don’t do much mutual masturbation. We might start with some mutual fondling but once things get going it usually switches to one of us being the receiver, I don’t think either of us are great at muti-tasking or maybe it’s just that positions for mutual satisfaction are more teasing but don’t really give either of us enough pleasure to get us off.
We do masturbate together some times which I love. Usually we are pretty well timed and the sight of one of us cumming is enough to tip the other over the edge. I’d say its an even split on who cums first
I generally try to hold off until wifey is close and then either cum together or but she usually asks me to cum on her breasts, face, or in her mouth which pushes her over the edge. We are kind of stuck in a vicious cycle where we both use the other’s orgasm as a trigger for our own, so if one of us stalls out it can get ugly real fast.
When we have a mutual session I always try so hard for her to cum first. Fighting the dreaded menopause makes her have to work for an orgasim so much harder. We generally start with her on the lounge and her L/H clit suction toy I’ll be on a chair videoing it’s super hot to watch her. She’ll tell me oh god I’m cuming that’s when she drops the toy and rubs her clit with her hand. I’ll cum over her hand and clit. And she cums also It’s awesome
@New2 … This is right up your street…i. guessing David.
Im first if purely manual, but if MrsIwill has her vibrator at hand , she usually crosses the line well before me.
I orgasm a couple of times before OH does, but we do sometimes cum together
Normally iit depends if ever of us has masturbated recently, which will take longer or if we haven’t then it can be quick
I alwyas prefer my girlfriend to cum first, especially if using a vibrator, I find it then just results in my shooting my load within a few moments afterwards.
@New2 … I have found that the intensity of arousal has increased with age as MrsIwill has got older… once a crest has been tipped , whether with oral, toy or masterbation, her sexual desire can verge on mild aggression.
Which is absolutely fantastic.
Do you find similar with R.?
We’ve never tried this either and need to give it a go. I think we’ve nearly done it but haven’t planned for it to be a fully mutual masturbation session with us both planning to cum.
Give it a go @Fire_Ice1 !! We have mutual masturbation as our go to sex life nowadays. Age has dictated that standard PIV sex is no longer an option, but mutual masturbation is the best sex we have ever had.
It’s all toys, lubes, lingerie, games and a bit of porn…sends us wild
During sex she tends to orgasm first.
During mutual masturbation I tend to finish first and then I finish her (I can’t multitask like she can and she gets way way more excited if she sees me excited and orgasm).
When we do mutual masturbation, he either “lets” me have an orgasm, or he’ll edge me. When I do orgasm, he very much enjoys watching me climax.
I’ll edge him, but he won’t cum that way, he prefers to cum inside me.
He does find it a turn on when we finish together in PIV though.
Tried this last night after initially reading and replying to the thread yestreday afternoon.
Told my partner to lay on the bed where she was playing with her vibrator and rubbing it over clit.
I was knelt beside her on the bed, just stroking my cock.
Just as she was about to come, I asked her to open her mouth, and started wanking furiously. The action of me doing that, right at the point she was about to come was sensational. It triggered her orgasm and literally as she was moaning with pleasure, my cock just exploded shooting cum into her mouth and across her cheek.
I did feel really naughty once the intensity of my orgasm had faded, but she was just so turned on by it and reassured me she was totally good with it.
