Having been cheated on and stuck by her, then found out that she was still lying to me and manipulating me for months before finally leaving me for a guy 15 years younger. I know find out that my once much-loved and trusted ex is telling people to warn off anyone who goes on a date with me.
Struggling to make sense of this, though I know even trying to do so is probably futile!
:(
Id most likely say shes doing it as she can longer have you so she doesnt want anyone else too
Thanks both :)
The woman I am seeing at the moment is well and truly wise to all this, thankfully I have been totally open about all the drawn out pain so she knew the truth before the gossip hit.
Still sad though that the ex can't let go, I have done everything she asked of me.
*shudders* :(
Noon, does it tell you anything if i KNEW this was your thread just from the title?
More *hugs* for Noon 
She probably doesnt want you to be happy or have anyone as she knows how good of a man you are and it will hurt her to see another woman with you . Put thats not fair on you, you should be happy ingnore the ex shes just a tit . She made her bed now go lie in it with her toy boy while you meet a lovely woman who treats you right Noon . All the best in this new relationship .
Thanks all, very comforting words :)