Hi everybody!
I have a new girlfriend and she refuse to do anal, but I talked to her and told her that it is a big thing for me. First she didn't want to hear about it, but she noticed that it was bothering me. After a good talk I found out, that she tried anal sex with her ex-bf in the past and she didn't liked it. They tried to fast and it wasn't pleasurable for her. They never had penetration because it hurt to much, so she thinks there isn't a good side of anal sex and she thinks we don't need it in our relationship. I also told her that I like anal on me, but she just don't want to think about anal sex, even it's on me. She can't think about getting something in her butt or mine...
I thought it was a dead end for me, but she after a while of talking she said, she wants to read stories from other people with the same experience and then maybe, just maybe we can start our journey into anal sex. I don't know if she just told me to end our conversation or if she really meant it, but does somebody know some good site/stories for her, where she can see that anal sex can be pleasurable for her and me? Any good advice will help me a lot!
thanks!