New to this

Hey guys
Me and my partner are very new to toys. Asin we've never used anything before. Any advice to ease us in and build some confidence 😄

Hi and welcome xx

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Hey and welcome! First time toys depends on what you both enjoy. I would suggest both sitting down and having a look at the couples toys:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/sex-toys-for-couples/

A bundle is always easy and fun as it has a bit of everything, or you could make your own with a few bits. Maybe a blindfold, feather tickler, a bullet vibe and a basic stroker or cock ring 👌🏻

Hey and welcome to the forum :)

Welcome! Hope you feel at home here.

For someone who doesn't know where to start, I like to recommend a bullet vibrator or a couple's kit. Bullet vibes are a staple, and our couple's kits & bundles come with a bit of everything so you can give a few different types of products a go.

Bullet vibe I recommend: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22122 (Dream Bullet)

Couple's kit I recommend: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35238 (Wild Weekend) or https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=39587 (Valentine's Sexy Gift Bundle)

Hope this helps.

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Hi and welcome X.

Where you want to start depends a lot on how you feel about sharing sex and what you’re comfortable with.

Forst thing I would recommend is a good water based lubricant, Sliquid gel is a good choice

FOR HER.

The clitoral suction stimulators are great, give loads of orgasms and as a man I love watching my wife react to one of these toys. As a Woman, she doesn’t notice she’s being watched so much, she’s busy climaxing. You have joined the forums at a really interesting time for these types of toys as the Womanizer (yup it’s a rubbish name but don’t be put off) starlet is great and I think it’s going to set a new benchmark for these types of toys in terms of performance to price. It isn’t waterproof though.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=39540

FOR HIM.

Unfortunately, masturbation sleeves and mens sex toys to stimulate the love pump aren’t progressing quite as fast as women’s toys but, in my opinion a good one to try is the Tenga Zen, feels fantastic, fits most blokes and looks like a piece of art. It’s also affordable. The Fleshlights are great too and do feel better to use but they are heavier to use, physically 4 times bigger than the Zen and some of them have porn model vulvas moulder onto them.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22882

FOR YOU BOTH.

Its pricey but I can’t recommend any better couples toy above the Doppio. Get the Doppio 2.0 at a stretch because the remote is really useful. If you think this costs too much just bear in mind that this toy is a general vibrating toy like a bullet, it’s also a toy you can pop on him to enhance both sex for both of you and it has 3 bullet vibrators built into it. And it’s waterproof! It’s a real Swiss Army knife of sex toys but this does t compromise it’s ability. Can’t go wrong with one of these.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/search/?q=Doppio

Knowing what I know now, These are the 3 his hers & couples toys I’d start with. Id definately start with the Doppio though and considering what it can do it’s going to really open your sexual curiosity up, it will get you both sharing a toy while being together so will strengthen your relationship, curiosity and acceptance of using aids to promote great sex later on. Hope this is helpful advice.

Thank you all so much! You've given us plenty to go on to start with 😉

Hi, just have fun and don't be afraid to try new things as long as your both comfortable with it