Hi
My wife really gets off on nipple stimulation during sex so I was thinking of getting her a set of nipple clamps. the problem is she doesn't like bondage or pain play of any kind.
Are there any clamps that allow for the pleasure without the pain?
Nipple pumps/suckers might be a better idea than clamps? I mean, I have a set of both and the suckers are certainly better for giving you nipple stimulation without pain (which is part of the reason why I then went and bought a set of nipple clamps) - they also feels amazing.
Others may be able to give you more advice, though. There are quite possibly clamps out there that do exactly what you're looking for; sorry I couldn't be of more help. :)
No that sounds good advice.
I'm always nervous buying her gear because she is quite shy about new sexual experiences.
I think some clamps have very soft endings to them which allow you to adjust the pressure therefore making the lowest setting pain free, search clamps on the home page and I expect it will show the perfect pair for you and your partner
Hi McGlovin - I have tried various clamps and these really are the best ones I have found:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17263
They are very easy to use - simply slide the metal ring downwards, towards the beads. This will make the tweezer open up, allowing you to place the rubber tips around your nipple. You can then tighten them as much or as little as you like by moving the metal ring upwards, which is great for making 'adjustments' while in the middle of things.
Sensations vary depending on the pressure you choose to apply, from 'barely there' to 'Ouch!'
Not being into pain myself, when taken off they do cause a lot of 'sensation' - so do beware of the amount of time/tightness that you use with these.
Hope this helps :) xx
I saw those ones and the 50 shades branded style. I thought the looked less threatening but thanks for advice, would have thought the tweezers would have been sore but I'm looking forward to her 'sensations' when they're taken off. That's if I can tempt her to wear them. At least they're sold out so I have time to lay the groundwork.
I also have spartacus o.es different type with a chain and clit clamp attached. Sorry i cant post the attachment. I agree with scorpius im not a pain bunny either but they make your nipples more sensitive and can be adjusted so they aren't painful at all.
We purchased the same clamps and they are heavenly we also have the matching clit clamp
Sounds amazing but my wife is really timid/vanilla so I'm pushing my luck with nipple clamps let alone a clit one.
Scorpius12 wrote:
Hi McGlovin - I have tried various clamps and these really are the best ones I have found:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17263
They are very easy to use - simply slide the metal ring downwards, towards the beads. This will make the tweezer open up, allowing you to place the rubber tips around your nipple. You can then tighten them as much or as little as you like by moving the metal ring upwards, which is great for making 'adjustments' while in the middle of things.
Sensations vary depending on the pressure you choose to apply, from 'barely there' to 'Ouch!'
Not being into pain myself, when taken off they do cause a lot of 'sensation' - so do beware of the amount of time/tightness that you use with these.
Hope this helps :) xx
I have these too, you can totally control the sensation very easily. There doesn't need to be any pain if you don't want it.
I love mine but has made me cry once when my girl friend put them on me too tight lol
I have these http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17263
The good thing is that you can easily adjust the pressure so there does not have to be pain. Just the stimulation.
There are two problems with them though. When you get them, you do have to get glue ready as the rubber does slip off. Glue does fix this easily and permanently.
Second is that if you do not put them tight enough, they either fall or or slowly slip off.
If you are afraid of the pain, then adjustable clamps are the place to look. Non adjustable tend to have stronger grip. Avoid clams such as these http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1769
Even though I was experienced by the time I got those, they were just too strong for me and I did not like them. They are good, but for people who actually enjoy the pain. And I do mean pain, as they have strong grip.
After having had a rethink, nipple suckers might be the way to go at first. If she likes them, maybe then introduce some non-intimidating nipple clamps. Good luck! Let us know how you get on x
If you're looking for something that is as gentle as possible, then I would suggest something like the crave leather tassel clamps: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22900
They don't actually 'clamp' at all, but simply lassoo around the nipple and are very decorative but not at all painful to wear.
For something to step up a little, how about the beaded nipple huggers? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16972