OH "too tight" for anal

Sex Tips & Talk
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We frequently try anal but find she is extremely tight back there and half of the time I can't get it in, even with lube. Any suggestions on how we can do this an easier way? Should we make use of a butt plug to help things along?

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Yes a butt plug will definitely help to warm up with, and she needs to relax! The anus can stretch loads, so it is possible.

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Anal isn't like you see it in pornos, it takes a lot of prep, the anus must be stretched before trying sex, my OH took a few more months doing this before we even tried anal sex, she bought a small plug and worked her way up comfortably through gradually bigger plugs until she got to one just thicker than my penis, once she was comfortable with that and only then we began with the anal sex, even now she still wears that same plug before! My OH has kept going to bigger and bigger, it doesn't affect the sex at all, its just something she loves doing!

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I started with a small plug myself, as i had the same problem, i went all tight the monent my partner came near me , wearing the plug helped me a lot as the more i wore the plug the more comfortable it became, and the more relaxed i became, i def would recomend trying a plug, they are some really nice beginners ones which i started with :)

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I'm a very small woman not even 5 foot. So I'm very tight in both holes. But yes it is possible me and my partner had the same problem as his pretty big. But your partner needs to practice practice practice!

This really helped me get into anal http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13504

Now I can take a 8 inch, 4 wide, vibrator anally.

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Take a run up...

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..... Sorry, as the others said lots of practice and take it slowly

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Viridianuk wrote:

Take a run up...

hahahahahahahahaah i proper chuckled at that >.<

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Now I can take a 8 inch, 4 wide, vibrator anally.

Respect Lolli
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Now I can take a 8 inch, 4 wide, vibrator anally.

Respect Lolli, thats impressive, How did that post twice?
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Anubis wrote:

We frequently try anal but find she is extremely tight back there and half of the time I can't get it in, even with lube. Any suggestions on how we can do this an easier way? Should we make use of a butt plug to help things along?

Hi Anubis - Please make sure you take things really slowy and take lots of time to build up. I agree with MissChar - butt plugs really do help and make sure you use a good quality anal lube - I find Maximus works really well for me personally.

I have also found a LH link about 'anal play' - which I hope will also help :)

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/buyers-guide/anal-sex-toys-beginners-guide/

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Definitely take things slowly and start with butt plugs.

Use smaller ones gradually building up to larger ones. She should then be okay with you taking her as long as she's relaxed. Always remember the lube as well!

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Lollipop ;) wrote:

I'm a very small woman not even 5 foot. So I'm very tight in both holes. But yes it is possible me and my partner had the same problem as his pretty big. But your partner needs to practice practice practice!

This really helped me get into anal http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13504

Now I can take a 8 inch, 4 wide, vibrator anally.

We all know you're a special lady tho 'pop! :)
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I agree with lots and lots of lube but also try starting with small anal beads like this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13660 just tease but making sure you use loads of lube just take it slow and easy she will have to be relaxed

hope this helps

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Why thank you boys. =)

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Thanks guys/girls - some excellent advice!

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Lolli, I am right thinking when you say 4" wide, thats over 12" in circumfrance! Thats very impressive and about what my OH is aiming at achieving for fisting!

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Viridianuk wrote:

Take a run up...

very nearly spat my coffee out......

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Oh god no lol, Yes man. I mean its 4 circumfrance I can't take about 7 in the most so far but I'm getting there ;)

I wouldn't want to ever be fisted tho.

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Lollipop ;) wrote:

Oh god no lol, Yes man. I mean its 4 circumfrance I can't take about 7 in the most so far but I'm getting there ;)

I wouldn't want to ever be fisted tho.

Must admit thsts what I thought you ment! No wonder you got so much praise! lovl