Hi everyone,
I wanted to ask about a problem that I know is pretty common but I wanted to see if anyone had any tips or tricks that worked for them. I've never had a vaginal orgasm and, despite my love of sex, I really wish it was part of the experience. People always talk about how great orgasms are and how good they feel but I can't relate to that. Not being able to makes me a lot more insecure and I know that the boyfriend would feel better about the sex we're having (although it is great) if he could get me there too.
I have had a baby within the last year and this has made things even worse for the time being. I know there's things like kegel balls and tightening gel (which I am going to try) but I've been having this issue since before I gave birth to my daughter. I have bought some things to try and help like some tightening gel and libido pills but I'm not sure how well they're going to work.
Has anyone gone through similar? Do you guys have any toy recommendations or ideas I could try with the boyfriend?