Hi there!
I've always had pain during penetration and I was wondering if I am not alone and if not what you guys do about it! I have had sex with my last boyfriend, but it wasn't exactly what I wanted nor was I fully aroused. Although being on top meant the pain subsided after a few minutes which I don't understand! He left me because I couldn't "perform" so I thought I would try and "train" myself using some of love honey's toys. I've bought love therapy balls and so far (after my first go tonight) I managed to get one of the balls in (which to me is pretty fantastic!!!!) although it was uncomfortable and I failed to sit down properly -_-. Still I couldn't get the second in, it hurt far too much even with a lot of lube!
I've also bought a realistic dildo to go around it another way and so far I've managed about two inches of it before it get's painful.
Once I try with the toys I feel a burning sensation on the lower outer part of my vagina and then I just have to stop. I've never worn tampons so I wouldn't know about them either. It's just it's frustrating to not be able to do it! I expected it to hurt to begin with because it always has, especially my first time, although a few minutes into it it mellowed out, weeks (possibly months) later it got worse to the point where 10 minutes of it would make me cry underneath him.
I'm annoyed at myself to a point and but I am determined to get the second ball in and to adapt better to it - maybe in the bath? Lol.
Do you have any similar problems? If so, how are you / did you manage with it?
HELP!