Hi All,
So, little bit of a random one for ladies that squirt or gush. I'm not quite sure how to word this all properly, but be patient and I hope you understand what I'm trying to find out.
Before my OH met me, she had no idea she could do this - have 'very wet orgasms' as she refers to it. She really enjoys, and for me it is a massive turn on, especially whilst giving oral at same time! However, the OH doesn't find them as intense as 'normal' orgasms, she doesn't feel that same level of release.
I have found I focus on her having wet orgasms, but after she is getting a little frustrated that she is not then able to have 'normal' orgasms after (clit or internal). She has got a little in her head around it and starting to think she is 'broken', and I really don't want her to feel that way.
The obvious thing would be to experiment a little, and see how things go without giving her 'wet orgasms', but was intrigued to see if others had any insight into this. I hate to think my quest for a paddling pool is depriving the OH, and I don't want to make matters worse.
So my question is when a lady squirts or gushes, does that perhaps change sensitivity around other orgasms?
Wow, I feel like an absolute newbie with way I have written this, but obviously dont have the advantage of knowing how things feel for ladies, and not wanting post to sound crude or ignorant. Any insight would be very helpful, thanks in advance!