Hey Girls!
I'm wondering how you all sexually are after the menopause? I went totally off sex - even masterbation (which I've been a huge fan of since [edit by mod: as long as I can remember]) during the menopause...and I won't lie to you, I never thought I'd want to get screwed again!
BUT!!! Now it's all over I have gone sex mad - I'm like the biggest, sex crazed , brazen hussy ever! I'm thinking about sex constantly and pestering Mr Spider almost every time I see him - even he's getting a little sick of it! lol He had gotten used to the no sex life, settled for solo and porn a couple of times a week - but now I'm expecting him to perform at least 2 or 3 times a day - sometimes more and at 49 years old he's finding it difficult to keep up!
Is this 'the norm' I wonder? Am I ever gonna think of anything but my next orgasm again? I think poor Mr Spider is trying to avoid me much of the time...
I agree with the fact that I need more sex post menopause and I am more likely to try new things now I am definately growing old disgracefully and loving it !
Penny26 wrote:
I agree with the fact that I need more sex post menopause and I am more likely to try new things now I am definately growing old disgracefully and loving it !
More sex post menopause is deffo a good thing...as is growing old disgracefully!! I wonder... is thi true...problem is/can be - that most of us have partners of similar ages - and as our sex drives go up - the Mr's gets less!
More masterbation time - or making him do the work whether he feels like it or not? 
Went through the menopause without changing my sexual habits; loving sex with OH, masturbation and swinging, but did notice a drop in tnat hormonal urgency for sex I had before.
'Growing old disgracefully' is a phrase we use too.