so me and my oh been together 15 months and are really happy, amazing sex life aswell, however i keep thinking of his best mate in a sexual way, need advice please help
I think its normal to Fantise about other people including your OH's friends, depending on how open your OH is you maybe able to use it as a fantasy for you both.
I think if it's just fantasy and you aren't going to act on it then it's ok. I think about my female friends in a sexual way sometimes, even developing little crushes but it tends to pass and I think it's quite natural.
its so difficult
Personally i wouldnt go there as a discussion. My wife knew I fancied her best friend we (her best friend) used to flirt before my wife and i were an "item" she was always anxious that i was more attracted to her friend than to her. As a guy I dont want to hear who my wife fancies unless its Rod Stewart or Kenny Dalgleish.
Crushes pass